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| I really don't like to be in the company of mean-spirited and intolerant people. Pushy and cruel can be fun, in a way that bullying and destructive never is. Consideration and trust is imperitive. I want to feel someone deeply enough to try to run through walls. And when I hit it, to bounce back and try again.
On a personal level, I do not go out and run ten miles to keep myself stick thin in case I may meet a lady who wants to play xylophone on my ribcage, or work out until my muscles are wrecked and stand about in bars showing off my arms in a t-shirt with the sleeves torn off. But I do run a little, and I do work out a bit. Just not obsessively. I am not generally an obsessive guy. Time and space is nice.
I have just one experience of a submissive relationship that started with some normal dates, a connection, some laughter. Getting to know one another first is important I think, to establish an emotional connection and to invest in that energy first. I am patient and will never try to beg or push or rush forwards.
Though confident in public, once you close the door, either physically or metaphorically, I realize I will be without authority. I would be proud if I could relax you and make you comfortable. If you think I am worthy of your attention I would do all I can not to lose that honor.
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