I am seeking a lady (a gender female or a transgendered, post-op. male-to-female), younger than myself, for friendship: for sharing alternative and conventional lifestyle interests. This wholeness is important to me: I am seeking a lifestyle with a partner that merges alternative and conventional interests into a compatible and complementary whole. I am open to a long term relationship should such a friendship develop naturally in that direction.

I am a single, heterosexual man, university educated, with a great fondness for the natural world. I am a keen photographer. I am physically active, being fit, with a slim build, without being athletic (I am not a Mr Muscle Man, if that is important to you). I positively enjoy activities such as walking and cycling. I mention these things (and, for that matter, all that is here) not in idle passing, but because I wish to share, develop, and expand upon such interests with a partner. If you like to keep yourself fit, do not smoke, have compatible and complementary interests, etc., then this is a good foundation on which to build.

I would describe my dominance/submissiveness as being very much partner and context dependant: it has little meaning (to me, at least) in an absolute sense. I could switch, be mostly (or entirely) one or the other, or neither, in a relationship where it seemed natural and fulfilling for both of us for it to be so. Whatever the balance, I view dominance and submissiveness in a constructive relationship as complementary equals, never as a sign of inferiority/superiority.

I am open to exploring most alternative interests provided they are safe, sane, consensual, and legal. Again, I would describe my preferences as being very much partner dependant; activities are meaningless (for me) outside this context. Areas that would probably interest me would include concepts such as elegant bondage and artistic objectification: I value the thoughtful, creative side. I would not wish to be involved in such things as blood, scat, scarring, etc.

I would occasionally enjoy exploring (sharing in) the feminine side of life from the feminine perspective (cross dressing, etc.), and I seek a lady who would not only be tolerant of this but who would wish to actively pursue this with her partner. I would love to be in touch with her femininity in this way. I would not be interested in doing this on my own: as I have mentioned before, it is the sharing (togetherness) that is important to me.

If my profile has interested you, if you feel we have compatible and complementary interests, if you have found yourself thinking about the sorts of things that we could achieve together (rather than what I could do for you), and if you would like to get to know more about me, then please feel free to contact me. I am a thoughtful and considerate person (I look for the same) and will respond to all genuine correspondence in kind.