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We are a multiple/plural gateway system that means we are one body with many souls cohabiting the body, we are not the psychiatrict model of DID, we function as well as any other person with our disabilities and don't lose time. There are two main fronters and managers of the body, The Twins- Rani and Lyrah and others that come and go, from our home-world another universe, our Heaven and there are a few that are always around to be called when needed, we can all share memories of the body if needed. See our writings or http://the-twinsi.blogspot.com.au/ for more about this. Seeking - We are seeking a long term preferably lifetime relationship built on trust and someone we can love though it doesn't necessarily need to be reciprocated.
We may be open to just playing or casual relationships given that we feel the situation is safe and that our limits and safe words are respected. We are open to friends with benefits but are very picky about what that entails. It would take us some time to trust anyone seeking a relationship due to previously been hurt. Though time can heal old wounds and we grow and change each day. We will not meet you without our partner present at the first meeting and possibly more until trust is built and established. First play or sex sessions etc will be with our partner present until we feel it is safe to be alone with you, this isn't negotiable. It will all be dependent on who you are and what you are seeking with us, how much we have talked and so on.
We ask that, if possible, you Please do not text speak with us, we expect proper English regardless of who you are, and it will make us respect you more. We cannot understand text speak as much as we try and have enough difficulty with communication as it is. We believe in open and honest communication and text speak will hinder that significantly with us. We may be open to a long distance relationship depending on certain circumstances, we cannot however move from our current location as we are in a lifetime relationship and this is our life. We may be able to travel within Australia if a genuine loving, trusting relationship develops. We are not interested if you are cheating, We are polyamorous and open to being in any poly relationship but are not interested in hiding our relationship from significant others in your life, if they don't know then we’re not interested, We have values and beliefs and supporting someone cheating on their significant other is not one of them. We will not hide who we are with from our partner. We prefer to be with people who love dogs as we usually have one with us all the time. We are submissive and very sexual, with clear limits, some are negotiable if our relationship develops to that amount of trust, and others are non-negotiable hard limits.
Our submission is driven primarily by sex along with the emotional aspects of it. We are seeking a Dominant soul of any gender identity or body shape to be submissive to. We want to have a long term relationship with someone who matches the qualities we seek in a soul to be with. We have many interests in being a submissive and we’re open to most things within our given limits.
We also would love to have someone in our lives that would have sex with us whilst being watched, photographed or filmed doing such with us, being used sexually is a fetish of ours though we have many we are very sexual. We are in a relationship with our soulmate and love of our life, our Daddy Master and though he isn't polyamorous, he does approve of our need to seek other partners to fulfill our desires and needs, he may be contacted at any time if needed. We are also always seeking someone to be our best friend that we can trust and talk about anything with, that has similar interests, lives close to us and would want to do things we enjoy. Friends are always welcome, we prefer to have friends on our list that are going to interact with us on a regular basis and get to know us and accept us as we are. We don't want people on our friends list just to up their friend’s amount. We do want friends who will interact with us, however social situations can be difficult for us, so we may have trouble keeping the conversation going at times. Also, we are slow to talk as we use AAC and it takes longer than normal conversation, and sometimes it can take us up to a month to respond to you, it will usually be sooner but our Autistic brain needs time to process things. Please understand this in being our friend and interacting with us.
Please message us and interact with us before adding us as a friend, any requests without a message or prior interaction will be declined. Giving us your phone number will result in no reply. Expecting us to call you will result in no reply. We do not use the phone. We will not go and meet you tonight for some fun either, we need to build some trust and set limits before being with anyone. We are not interested in cybersex or cybering other than having genuine discussions and friendships built. You will have to communicate with us online for a short time before we trust you enough to meet and progress in any relationship. If you aren't prepared to take that time that we personally need then don't contact us, we expect to be respected and will give the same courtesy to those that do respect us. We are submissive and very shy by nature, but that can be fluid depending on the person we are with and how we get along.
We have full permission of our Daddy Master to seek out any relationships as we see fit, know that though we have this open trust with him, we do not keep secrets and tell our Daddy Master everything with full trust and support. He has all our online ID's and passwords and is free to check any of them at any time. If something goes wrong he will help us deal with it or deal with it himself. You do not need to message him for permission to contact us or develop any kind of relationship with us. You are free to contact him if needed to confirm we have permission to pursue others or to ask anything about us. About Us
We have multiple disabilities and few places to be ourselves; we trust few people with who we are. This is who we really are; this is our place to be our real selves. We’re complicated in many ways and it would take time to get to know us.
We are proud of who we are and will not change for anyone but ourselves, our Daddy Master or a lifetime Dominant should it arise, take us as we are or go somewhere else. We don't have a job and are on a disability pension due to having multiple complex disabilities, if we gain enough trust with you we may reveal what all of these are. We collect dolls, particularly Asian Ball Jointed Dolls but like a variety of other dolls as well. We write stories, draw, paint, sew, knit, and crochet. We like a lot of different crafts. We also spend time training our dogs to do assistance tasks for us, and two are show dogs, as well as just being with them. To relax we watch movies and TV series on DVDs because it helps our pain and because we need captions we can’t really go to the cinema, so we only get the ones that have captions for the hearing impaired. We also play some games online and on the iPad but are very selective with them, and want a playstation 3. We play with our dogs or just listen to music, we find all our art and crafty things relaxing as well most the time. We’re in a full time relationship with our soul mate, Daddy, Master, lover and more and will have been with him for 15 years this coming June. He is our light and guide in this life and nothing will break us apart. Although our lifetime partner is not polyamorous, we are and he is accepting of us pursuing other relationships. What makes us special would be a mixture of things, including our hobbies how we see the world in a different way to most. We’re quiet and shy until we get to know you well. We will speak our mind if we feel strongly enough about something, Lyrah is more social than Rani. We’re very creative and love to make things. We care about others and are very protective of people we care about, children and anyone with a disability. Too much discrimination and abuse really bothers us and we speak out though sometimes it’s not in the best of situations and we can easily get in trouble. We’re generally positive in real life but notice that people think we’re negative online and have been working hard to change that. People tend to misread our emotions because of our Autism. We believe in being nice to everyone unless there is great cause not to be, because we never know what someone is going through. How one person copes with something will be different for another, and we need to support everyone as best as possible to build a better world. We also believe that anyone can learn if given the right tools to do so, even those with intellectual disability and that disability is very misunderstood and not always a negative thing that society makes it out to be. We love our little family and online friends, We don’t have any real life friends as yet but that’s ok because our online friends are great no matter how far away they are.
We’re pagan, polyamorous and pansexual. We can be attracted to any gender identification and any form of body shape. We believe in loving ones soul regardless of how it physically presents itself. This body is intersexed and we identify as being Gender Fluid. We’re comfortable with our anatomy, sexuality and Gender Identity as it is. It took us a long path to get to this point in our life. It is not too much for us to ask that we’re respected in our Gender Identity, which is who we are, an important and essential part of our souls. We are not within gender stereotypes and would prefer to be friends with those who have open enough minds to not place us on a black and white scale of gender. We’re neither male nor female but both and none at the same time. We’re both a boy and a girl or both and none at different times depending on our mood, who we are with or who is fronting at the time. We will present as female at times and male at other times, and may be androgynous at other times.
We appreciate those that are respectful enough to see us as we are despite our physical anatomy, for we feel that our physical anatomy shouldn't be important given our gender identity. We do have female anatomy - breasts, and a vagina with a large clitoris/micro penis that we refer to as our cock with male characteristics - facial and body hair and internal differences and this will not change.
Our body will however change and transform as we are actively trying to lose weight both for health and emotional reasons, our true self is not a large being however we have no issues with others who are of a curvy nature. We will not be responsible for making you confused about your sexuality. The photos on our profile are things that speak to us; they all express a part of us. Our personal photos are friends only. If we haven't written that we or Master_N (our Daddy Master) has taken the photo then it's not ours. We will give credit when we can to the person who owns the photo. Any quote photos are not ours and have been taken from the internet or from friends’ fb posts; they just speak to us in one way or another. If you think it is acceptable to use the R word in any form, or any other ableist language against disability (ask us if you want to know what this means, We don’t want that language on our profile) then understand that though we may not remove you as a friend, it will make use think lesser of you to some extent, this is very personal and we will not tolerate it, we see it a lot online but this is us and our life and it shouldn't be used as everyday language. Want to know more go to: http://therword.org/ http://www.r-word.org/ Thank you for reading this if you got this far, we appreciate people who read our whole profile and then get to know us.
12/14/2012 9:40:17 PM

Being a Multiple

Something that not many understand, we are what we define as a Multiple or Plural, we do not know another word that better fits what we are. This does not mean we have multiple personalities, or are like the psychiatric model of DID nor do we have split personalities.
We are what we define as healthy multiplicity. We are a body that has multiple souls within it, they are all their own seperate beings, they are not a part of one soul that has split off into personalities, it didn't come about because of abuse or for protection or whatever other thing you wish to think about it.
There is no original soul or owner of the body, the body is a vessel for all of us within it, we are not one being, we can never intergrate or become one being because we are not all part of the one soul, we are distinct seperate souls with our own distinct seperate personalities, likes, dislikes, allergies and so on. We all know and communicate with each other well, if someone fronts - becomes the main part of the body and is the one to interact with the world, there is no confusion as to what has happened, there is no loss of time, there is clear memory of what has happened and what was felt, we all have different feelings for the same situation, any of us can be called to the front as needed, but it takes a moment or so for that to take place.
There is a collective memory, then each soul has its own private memories, the collective memory is there to help in transitions from one soul fronting after another has been so there is no confusion. If one soul gets into a relationship or friendship with someone, that one soul will remain in communication and relationship with that person, we don't just randomly switch souls, we remain constant with the one person unless the person asks to know the other souls or is ok with switching at will, which we can do with our partner freely, and so far only with our partner as others havent been open to knowing us all.
So if you seek a relationshihp with us, the relationship will be with the Twins- Rani and Lyrah, they are the two main souls in this body, we both front equally. We sign our messages as Rani/or The Twins because we are both here, and we are twins who are usually always together, this is something that will never change and interaction will always be with both of us. The both of us control who can or can't front within this body and when, so that nothing bad happens in case a child or something wants to front in an innapropriate moment we have the powers within to hold the soul back until it is safe to do so.
That all being said, it is preferable for us to be able to switch at free will, however we understand that some people cannot cope with such changes, and want a relationship with only us Twins and will not want to know the others. Know however that this would be hard for us to deal with because being multiple is at the core of our body and souls.
If however you are seeking an intimate long term, full time relationship then all this needs to be understood and accepted and known that there will be switching while with our partner and when we are comfortable with you. It is another part of this body that cannot be changed and needs to be accepted as it is. If one of us does switch, we always make it known who it is there, with our partner this is different, because we have our own ways of showing who is there and when and other times he can just call either one of us up, it is easiest for Rani and Lyrah to switch fluidly being twins and being at the forefront of the body most the time, controlling what happens and how things are dealt with.

IF you want to know more about our way of being multiple then read on:

Rani is Queenie and Lyrah is Demoness.
What is Multiplicity?
For Information on Multiplicity/Plurality Check out these sites:
http://www.karitas.net/blackbirds/layman/


http://www.dreamshore.net/amorpha/faq.html


http://www.astraeasweb.net/plural/faq.html


http://www.exunoplures.info/


LiveJournal Community
http://multiplicity.livejournal.com/profile/

The Terms and Words We Use
Collective/System:
The total number of people/alters contained in one body, the way in which each role interacts to strive toward stability and coherence.

Souls/People/Angels etc: The individuals within the Collective/System, seen as seperate identities not as known in psychiatry as one personality split, we are all seperate souls with our own likes, dislikes, memories, wants, desires and so on.

Fronter/Fronting:
The person/people who is/are interacting with the world

Co-Fronting:
two or more people souls interacting with the world at once together.

The Twins:
The ones who interact with the world the most often, and who usually relate to other bodies as though they were the only personality, if presenting as singlet.
The Twins have all the memories of the body.

Singlet:
One Soul in One Body

Main Memory:
Memory that more than one soul/person can access, that can be accessed by another soul who did not commit the act being remembered. This can make for the surreal experience of remembering something that one did not do the first time.

Switching:
A switch takes place when one soul/person gives over control of the body or consciousness to another soul/person.
For some, the soul/person will have no memory of what the first was doing before the switch. For others it is a smooth process. Switching can be voluntary or involuntary, often it occurs due to an external stimulus or cue.

Littles:
the souls that are young [usually younger then a teen)

Age Sliders:
These are souls that can go from one age to another age, many in the collective can do this.

Gender Slider:
a soul that can go from male to female physical anatomy. Also known as being Gender Fluid.

Intersexed:
a soul that is both genders at once, or has no particular choice of gender.

Heaven/Home:
The name of our Home World, nothing like the heaven in religious beliefs.

Terms Others may use: http://www.karitas.net/pavilion/glossary.html


These words are not required or "correct" but are presented to give people a descriptive vocabulary in common. It is not necessary either to memorize the terms or to use them at all.

About us and what multiplicity is for our system.

We have known we were multiple ever since we can remember, however it is only in the past few years we learnt there are others like us and that there was a name to how we were. Until then we had thought we were the only ones, we knew about the psychiatric diagnoses DID etc, but we also knew that it didn't fit us and how we were and anything we read about that just didn't sit well with us. It didn't affect us or impact our lives in a negative way, if anything it helped us get through life better and easier than had we been a singlet.
We don't believe abuse made us this way because we know and believe we were this way since we were born. We remember past lives, and our home world and things that just aren't understood by many.

We don't believe in the psychiatric model of DID etc, we believe in healthy multiplicity, as it pertains to us. That’s not to say others don't have those things, just that it doesn't fit or describe how we are.
We function on as normal a level we can, we don't have black outs or have difficulty functioning as one being and can easily pass as a singlet. We all know who we are and where we come from and what is happening with each other and we understand how we each work and function.

Home:
The Twins Collective refers to all of the souls in the system and those that may come and go from our homeworld.
We come from another world, an alternate universe we call home, we call it our heaven it's the closest thing we have to describing it in earthly words. It is not confined by the physics of earth and what is supernatural or magic is natural in our home world. There are many things from home that we cannot find the words to describe here. The words we use here are only the words known to us on earth, in our home world we use a completely different language and words to describe who we are.
We also communicate in our own ways and understand each other easily there. Differences are all normal where we come from.

The body:
We see the body as a vessel that holds our spirits/ souls and as a medium between our home world and the earthly world.

The people within the body:
To start with there are The Twins, Queenie and Demoness, the main Fronters.
We aren't actual twins but triplets, just that we have lost the last piece of us and the two of us are closer to each other than anyone else so we are nicknamed the twins. We manage the body and interact with the world usually presenting as a singlet, it is likely that if you know us and have met us in real life you will have interacted with both of us at some point. We share all memories and events that has happened within this body. We also say who comes and goes and when as there are times it can be dangerous for certain members of the collective to front. We also manage the bodies memory and who has access to which memories and when. Some things are private for us.
Queenie known as the Queen in our home world. Is Gender Fluid, ranges from how xe feels in gender, sometimes presenting as female, sometimes male, sometimes no gender and sometimes both at once.
In our home world Queen can be anything. Xe mostly presents in human form, as a child, or as an angel or fairy, xe is also known for being a wolf and a fox at times, but xe can transform into anything xe wants to be. Part of xyr soul is within this body and part of it is at our home world, xe will not feel complete until this body dies and xe goes home again.
Demoness will always present as female, is intersexed, has both male and female parts but identifies as female. Is very dark in nature.
In our home world she usually presents as a demon or panther, also like Queen can transform into any being she desires, she is also known for being a dark fairy, and the dark princess. She is also seen as having a heart of ice, cold and impenetrable but those close to her know her better. Also like Queen, part of her soul is here and part of it is in her home but she can come and go home more readily and easily than Queen can. Demoness doesn't interact with the world as much as Queen because she doesn't feel she can be herself, though she wishes she could talk to people and have friends here but doesn't think others will understand her as her own person or how this body's system works.

Then there is those that are always around that front for certain situations or just to be out, they pass by our world and earth but usually remain close to us on earth. These are:
Sadie, Aleesha, Mandy, Lujan, Skye, Lily, Jakobe, Lasey, and more that you may come to know over time, these are just the ones coming to mind at the moment. Some of them want to interact with others and some have no interest in interacting with anyone but dad our partner.

The Others:
And last there are those that come and go from our home world. There are some that are close to Queen and Demoness that come out from time to time, then there are others that only visit once for something important or to pass on a message, there are too many names of these to list. These can pass through our world and earth easily and quickly but they do not remain within this realm.

This is just a general introduction to us, as you may see, our system is complex and can be difficult to grasp and understand. We hope that in coming to know us you can see us as we are and interact with us as our own people. We feel isolated from the world because of our multiplicity and different ways of functioning and communicating.
We hope that we can make friends who can understand us and interact with us as individuals and not as personalities, we are not of the same soul but separate beings with our own personality, likes, dislikes and so on. We even have our own allergies and some of us have our own disabilities even in our home world, some by choice, some just because that is how we are, we all accept and include everyone as they are.
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