Here's a rhetorical question to ponder....

Why is it that some people spend their whole life waiting and wishing for something - and when they get it, run like hell??

Once more into the fray....

OK...here's one I never thought I'd be addressing....

I just received a piece of mail from a young man who wished for Me to fart on him.

I am NOT judging anyone's preferences or kinks.  I am positive that there is the perfect Mistress for this young man....somewhere.

However - and this is a clue to everyone out there praying to find their perfect match - if you have a somewhat unique kink, it would be My recommendation to READ the profile of the person to whom you intend to send mail for clues as to the potential for sharing said unique kink.

In the case of anything...intestinal in nature...that might go DOUBLE.

I recently read a journal posting in which a sub male expressed the opinion that Domina's are actually the backlash product of puritanical Patriarchal relationships that end when the wife discovers that she really has a selfish need to be the center of attention after all of her children have left the nest.  This "sub" was quite pleased with his pseudo-psychology in attributing motives to this phenomena...without once realizing how incredibly arrogant he sounded or how reactionary and weak-willed he portrayed Dominas ( a need for attention? REALLY?? )

While I'll admit that there are a number of Dominant women who blossom a bit later in life  or finally find the courage to embrace their true desires, to assume that this comes about because of something a husband or child does or does not do is armchair therapy at best...and at worst, it degrades that womans choice.

That's simply the two cents of a woman who has known her role and desires since adolescence

If I get a "FRIEND" request or a Chat request from someone I do not know and have not specifically invited to do so, it's going to be declined. This isn't Facebook and I'm not interested in having My photo show up on your profile. Collecting "friends" like commemorative spoons doesn't interest Me in the slightest.