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I've been sexually dominant as long as I've been sexual, but I've only recently discovered the BDSM scene. Hi there.
I'm a busy college student. I don't have the time, energy, or desire for a lifestyle relationship. BDSM is a facet of my personality that I'm interested in exploring. It's not how I define myself.
I'm looking primarily for friends and contacts, secondarily for an intelligent male sub around my own age. "Submissive" does not mean "without personality". I'm looking for someone that I'm compatible with intellectually as well as sexually.
I'm a novice domme. I like boys. I like to tie boys up. I wouldn't consider myself a sadist, but I'm willing to use pain and discomfort as a discipline tool. I've got a sort of paramilitary paraphilia kink. Fascist uniforms. Boots. Gas masks. As I am poor college student and fairly new to the scene, I'm short on all but the most basic equipment.
I'm a feminist, but not a female supremacist. I personally enjoy female-led relationships, but I don't think that female-led relationships are necessarily the "right" thing for everyone.
My non-kinky interests include: books, British humor, classic films, comics, cooking, DaDaism, existentialism, gonzo journalism, independent music, noir, psychonauting, tea, writing, and urban ruins.
I'm a current undergraduate English major. I recommend that you avoid sending me messages full of egregious spelling and capitalization errors. (Exceptions are made if English isn't your first language. Then you get an "A" for effort.)
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I can't guarantee that I'll be checking my messages with any sort of regularity. If you send me an interesting message that I think is worth responding to, though, I WILL get back to you. Eventually. Patience is a virtue.
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So. I joined this site less than 24 hours ago and I've already been swamped with messages. I'll probably check my messages daily, but I might not have time to respond to the more interesting ones until a few days later. Don't automatically assume I'm ignoring you if I read your message and don't immediately respond. If I don't respond for a week or two, though... Then, yeah. I'm probably ignoring you.
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