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So, you've clicked on the profile and expect to be sold on something you read in my profile. Here would be where we "doms" should bolster and brag, show our muscles and hopefully sell our wares. Like the bird of paradise, who needs a ray of sun to shine it's color seductively. That's fine and I hope it get's them what they desire. But as I go through life, I find what's attractive is a real person. Not some posturing blow hard who's terrified of people seeing just how scared he really is. They fear the black abyss of an uncertain tomorrow that could weaken the knees of Atlas himself. The comforting truth is that we all feel that inner fear, we all face similar demons and struggle through life in our own ways. And on that common ground, we can build bridges to each other over our fears. Reach out and love each other. Not based on demography or races, but on the common ground that we are all human. We have struggled through life, and tomorrow, we'll do it again. Learn to love yourself, love who you are. And if you don't, strive to become a person you want to love. So...that was a mouthful. Not sure how I'm suppose to transiting into a "Dom"ish profile after all that "hippy talk" :) But maybe it explains why I consider it important to enjoying your humanity. Have fun! Don't be embarrassed of other's perception or criticism of your happiness...although I wouldn't advise happiness via chemicals... I enjoy black coffee, 420 friendly, cooking, fishing, and writing some erotic fiction...Maybe ask more about that? ;) I'm new to Oakland and am interesting in exploring the city and doing cool stuff! I'm loving life and looking for other people who enjoy life as well. Message me to learn more about...me i guess :P Stay strong all you beautiful meatsacks!