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Stern and challenging Dom seeks his little girl to train and adore
"The teacher who is indeed wise does not bid you to enter the house of his wisdom but rather leads you to the threshold of your mind." Prophet Khalil
Real life Meaningful Relationship
I am primarily looking for a LTR, 24/7 live in situation, open to consider TPE and/or Poly household. However, In the meantime I will consider exceptional playmates for a more NSA based friendship. I am also, open to a long distance relationship as long as she was open to moving when the time was right. I am not looking for casual sex, I've finally grown past the one night stand phase in my life. I am not rushing into anything, but ultimately there needs to be the potential for something exceptional to grow between us.
I believe D&s is a symbiotic relationship, each side feeding off and becoming stronger as the other grows. I am comfortable with most forms of BDSM, from erotic role play to edge play. I enjoy the simple beauty of japanese rope bondage, sensory deprivation, OTK spankings (for the personal connection it provides) as well mind play and breath play, to induce fear or explore more primal hidden desires.
Beyond the debauchery of the flesh, I am never truly content without the sublime pleasure of your submission. I am very much open to TPE or a more confined realm to express your submission, if the chemistry is right and certain guidelines are in place to guide us.
Experienced Deviant
I have over 20 years experience in this lifestyle and was originally trained in San Francisco and LA. I dont like to limit myself or my desires. I am a member of Mensa, although I dont attend meetings, as I am a bit different then the average member. I am constantly striving to learn something new. I like to think I am smart enough to discuss a variety of topics at parties but also candid enough to ask questions when a topic interests me or quietly enjoy my drink, when they dont. 
I enjoy exploring the intellectual aspects of D&s, submission, testing, exploring thru servitude. Rewarding, punishing or teasing, in response to your actions. Holding a sub responsible with consistent discipline, ultimately building a strong emotional connection.
Path of Servitude
I have sadistic inclinations so if you desire punishment, no need to act out, just ask sweetly and I will most likely bring you the sweet relief that at times only a tears can provide.
To the more sensual side of BDSM, sensory deprivation, hot wax, basic bondage, orgasm denial to forced orgasms, where you beg to not cum anymore. Teasing yet tormenting the flesh.
As well the more brutal aspects of BDSM. Humiliation, interrogation, caging, RAPE, Suspension bondage, joint manipulation rope bondage, to name a few of my most favorite things.
To reiterate this is not a laundry list of acts awaiting every sub. This is but a sample of my own personal perversity. I want to explore your own personal depravity, what arouses, what scares and ultimately what fulfills you as a submissive. Which oddly enough is quiet the often the acts that both scare and arouse you at the same time.
Looking into Your Abyss
I dont have any concrete guidelines for what I am looking for as my breadth of debaucheries enjoyed is quiet extensive. It primarily depends on the chemistry with each submissive. I believe our personalities are fluid, we are not hard cut puzzle pieces looking for the perfect mirror image. We are looking for a complimenting piece that fills the void that resides within all of us, needing to be filled. One just happens to be thru dominance and the other submission.
Some one who inspires me to be my best. While I challenge and guide them to be their best. Breaking free from the shackles of self doubt to find freedom thru submission.
I believe Our persona's are multifaceted, there is the person, your family knows, the other one your closets friend knows, the one your lover knows and the person hidden deep inside of you that you may or may not be willing to admit exists, no less fully embrace. The one whose voice, whispers to us in the dead of the night. This is who I desire to know and love.
Disciplinarian Role
While I am a bit of a sadist in that I enjoy bringing suffering to beautiful young things, it is not what I crave above all else. If I was forced to choose a primary role that beckons me. I am a dominant who NEEDS to fill the role of a Daddy, the Disciplinarian who guides and corrects his little girl, rewarding her when she is good and punishing her when she is naughty.
A generous Daddy who will let her play with other woman but never allow another man to touch her no less enter her body, as that is sacred and reserved only for Daddy. One who will push to behave in all forms of whorish manner at times. I guess once again we are back to the dichotomy of my nature and worth bringing to light.
Personal Stuff
I suffer from extreme wanderlust and have traveled extensively both in the States, Caribbean and parts of Europe.
I love watching movies, horror, action, sci fi, comedy and foreign films are my favorite.
I am a voracious reader, I read most nights before retiring.
I am a bit of a foodie and enjoy trying new types of cuisine.
I can cook and I dont mean just grill, I can cook and bake as well. Sometimes a good meal and a nice glass of wine, makes the whole world seem a better place.
I hope this doesnt sound pretentious as a cold beer and hot BLT sandwich, is a fast track to get me to undue my fly.
My Ideal Person: Intelligent
Not necessarily a learned person with multiple degrees as educated and intelligent are not always synonymous. But one who is unafraid to learn, to question, to explore life's mysteries and also be able to carry on a intelligent conversation.
Unless English is your second language and you are still learning, I expect you to be able to converse properly, not a plethora of slang or ebonics.
If English is your second language, I fully understand and welcome you to write as I am trying to learn Spanish and Italian, it is very hard work to learn a new language as an adult.
Beautiful
Inner and Outer beauty, I abhor mediocrity and negativity, each trial in life, also brings another opportunity. So, a positive mind set and being HWP, are just as important to me. There must be a physical as well emotional connection.
I enjoy dichotomy in nature and in people, intelligent strong willed yet submissive woman, Madonna and the whore is a good analogy. I am NOT looking for A whore, I am looking for MY whore, a lady or princess, when need be in public yet underneath resides the constant hunger and ache to serve, to bring pleasure to her Dom. I DONT share my woman with other men, under any circumstances, strictly private stock pussy. Now, other woman is always an option.
A dress is still hip
While I enjoy many types of attire on a woman, jeans and shorts can be not only very practical but very attractive, classy even, jeans with heels. But I also believe a woman needs to wear skirts, dresses, sundresses, etc as a staple of their wardrobe, of course stockings never hurt. If your a tom boy at heart that is fine as long as you are happy to embrace both sides of your femininity.
I know this opinion can be viewed as old fashioned and I concur as not all things new are better. I still believe a mans role is to open doors for his woman, protect and even guide her thru a crowd with a hand in the small of the back. Not because she is weak but because she is cherished.
Love and BDSM
Some people act like this a bad word or a sign of weakness for a Dom but I believe Love is a integral part of BDSM and D&s.
You must be searching for or at least very open to concept of LOVE and a REAL relationship.
A living entity and it may be similar or vastly different than your other past relationships. Because no two people are the same. Even though you are a submissive, you have NEEDs that must be fulfilled. Not a Want or a Desire but a NEED. (Commonality needs, water, food, shelter & clothing) Most everything else is a want or desire. However we also have psychological needs, something necessary to feel fulfilled as a person. Even if that need is too feel humiliated, abused or as 24/7 TPE slave, either adored princess or worthless cunt. These needs are very REAL and MUST be fulfilled for us to ever truly know peace and happiness.
Whether you are a pet curled up nude on cushion in the corner, a slave being punished, a whore enduring extreme degradation and humiliation or a sensual submissive pleasuring her Dom, I believe you can and should still be loved, for who you are, for what you offer, for what you endure. Being loved for who you truly and really are instead of being loved in spite of it.
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