Tell me and I'll forget. Show me, and I may not remember. Involve me, and I'll understand.

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option"

Today has proven to be most interesting...

I don't like to lead but neither will I follow an abuser or idiot. My partner needs to be intelligent and strong in his own identity and able to show compassion and warmth. If he can do that, then he is worthy of being followed. If he isn't strong I will stomp all over him. If he isn't warm and compassionate (towards me, at least), he won't be able to win my heart and trust.

You can think of me as a wild cat, tamed for the circus -- willing to submit for the right motivation and to a strong handler but always looking for a weakness I can exploit. Treat me with respect and affection and I will do as you ask. Bully me or neglect me and I'll eat you alive.

Pink makes sense today...

And so the day begins with such confusion.....maybe, maybe not, maybe, maybe not...I think not so much.  :(

And so it begins.....all this and dishonesty too!  Happy weekend all!!!