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Hello to all. We are a femdom couple in St. Petersburg that enjoys hosting CFNM parties. We have attended several in the past and always had a good time. We have decided to start hosting parties in our home. We are creating this profile to find women and men with similar interests that would like to participate. Please only send us messages on this profile about our parties. We will be posting some more pictures soon as well as timing for parties. After having been to several of these parties, we have learned what we like and don’t like and have tried to incorporate this into the rules you see below. If you are interested, please message us and let us know. Also, your ideas and suggestions are welcome. Goddess B and Bitch CFNM Parties We like to make the parties as fun as we can for all participants. Our parties have a strictly controlled female to male ratio to prevent any feelings of discomfort or anxiety. We are targeting a 1-1 ratio and will not exceed a 5:3 ratio of men to women at any party. We pre-screen participants based on specific criteria for men and women (See Invitation Criteria Below). Above all, we like to have fun and people that don’t have this attitude aren’t welcome. We fully respect all limits and have devised a party structure that ranges from mild to wild as the night progresses to give people the opportunity to participate only where they feel comfortable. We have a set of well-defined rules (See Party Rules Below) that prevents misunderstandings or issues. There is absolutely no fee for any of these parties. We do this strictly for fun. When asked, it may be appropriate to bring a dish or appetizer for the meal. We structure our parties into three sections so people can come in the beginning and stay for as long as they feel comfortable. The three sections are: Relaxed Party Time – Approximately 2 hours
The first 2 hours will be dedicated to relaxing period of appetizers, drinks, and dinner for the fully clothed women being served by naked men. We demand that all men be impeccably clean and subservient. They are expected to wear frilly aprons while preparing and serving any food. This is a time for the women to relax and socialize with each other. The men are expected to be subservient and out of the way, speaking only when serving or when being spoken to or asked a question by one of the women. Women are free to command waiter service from any of the men, touch or fondle them as they desire, or merely watch. Party Games – Approximately 2 hours After dinner and desert are served, we play some party games with the men entertaining us. This is fun and relaxing for the women, but can be quite humiliating for the men. Naked male to male contact is expected during this period of the evening as part of the play so if this offends you, you will have the opportunity to leave before this activity begins. Typical games may include the following, but this is just a small sample. Our imagination is the limit for this one ladies, and we expect the list to rapidly evolve.
  • Hula hoop contest – Winner is the guy that can keep it up the longest
  • Naked twister between the guys with some interesting add on’s. Women get nerf guns to shoot at exposed anatomy during the game.
  • Pin the tail on the sub – Subs get butt plug tails and have to wag them for our amusement
  • Fantasy story time – Men have to tell us their deepest darkest strategies around topics of our choosing
  • Strapon sucking deep throat contest – Who can take it the deepest?
Open Domination – Remainder of the night During this period, anything goes within the established rules listed below. We will have various BDSM toys available for play and people are encouraged to bring their own as well. People should fully expect activities such as: public bondage, beatings, strapon play, public masturbation, or forced bi for the women’s amusement. Individual limits will of course be respected. Invitation Criteria Women All women are welcome, from the mere curious to the very experienced and hard core Dommes. We will limit the total number of people attending based on the ability to accommodate everyone, but this will generally be on a first come, first served basis. The only exception will be either lack of adherence to the rules or rude behavior during one of the parties. It is important to have a relaxing atmosphere with no expectations for women. They should feel free to enjoy themselves in a relaxed environment and not feel that they have to behave in a certain way for the men or feel threatened by them in any way. This is after all a party for the women, not the men. Release your inner Goddess. Men There are always lots of men wanting to participate in these events so we will rank the available men by a series of criteria and cut it off when the ratio of men to women gets exceeded. The criteria are as follows in rank order.
  1. Attitude – men are expected to be respectful, submissive, and subservient to women at all times during the party. Any man who appears or acts differently will be excluded from participation.
  2. Part of a couple – preference will be given to men who are part of a couple where the woman is attending. This improves both the dynamics and the ratio.
  3. Sponsored by one of the female attendees – Someone who is known to fit the criteria and liked by one of the female attendees
  4. Openness – Willingness to participate in all ranges of activities including forced bi with few limits
  5. Safe sex – Those that can produce recent test documentation showing they are clean and can participate in the most extreme activities (See Rules)
  6. Looks – Yes, looks are a factor, but later on the list. After all, us girls do like some eye candy. LOL
Party Rules Aggressive or rude behavior – This will not be tolerated at our parties. This is intended to be a fun event at all times. Rude and aggressive people will be asked to leave and not invited back. Respect Individual Limits – We ask everyone to identify their limits ahead of the party. Any BDSM activity will involve the use of safe words. These limits must be respected at all times. Respect of Property – Any man that is part of a couple is considered her “property”. While it is reasonable to command service from a man during the first phase of the party, play in later phases with any of the men should be controlled by their owner. You should ask permission before engaging in direct activities or commands with an attached man. Unattached men at the party are at the command of every woman. Alcohol – Alcohol will be at the parties and people are expected to bring what they want, however, drunken behavior is not allowed and we certainly don’t want anyone driving home intoxicated. You are expected to control your drinking and behavior. There are many reasonably priced hotels nearby and we certainly don’t mind someone leaving their car overnight if the need too. Drugs – absolutely no drug use during one of our parties Smoking – is not allowed indoors. We have plenty of outdoor space for smokers. You should be respectful of the people around you as well. Cleanliness – All people are expected to be clean and well groomed. Men are expected to have a cleansing enema before the event. Men are also expected to bring their own towel and use it any time they are allowed to sit. Privacy – All our parties will be strictly private. There will be no photography of any kind and what happens at the party, stays at the party. We never kiss and tell. Safe Sex – we practice safe sex at all times. For the most part, this means no exchange of bodily fluids. The only exception being potential oral forced bi activities between men with recent clean test results and pre-agreed consent. Any anal activity or play with penetration toys will require a condom. Illegal Activities are not allowed in any way, at any time.
11/30/2015 6:03:33 AM
First party January 30th.  We set a date for our first party and it should be a blast.  I have several girls planning it with me.  If you want to attend please email me at tampabaycfnm at yahoo and reference your profile.
11/9/2015 11:32:50 AM
For people who want to attend,

Send me an email at tampabaycfnm at yahoo.  I'll email you instructions from there.  Looking forward to seeing all of you.  LOL