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Time for an update.I removed my profile a while back when I found a woman who suited me, and decided to focus upon that relationship before exploring any other avenue or possibilities. As a Master I feel that it would have been ill-behooving of me to do any less. Now the time has come again to reintroduce my profile, and with it, to update the me that is reflected within, to match the me that is reflected without.I am a 25 year old Caucasian man who lives a 24/7 TPE with the woman who is my wife. I am not the type of Dom, who is interested in play dates, or in beating the random slave/submissive that crosses my path of a Saturday night out at the club. In fact, the club, the scene, and the assorted baggage that goes with it are not something I usually delve into.About my views; I believe that there is a natural order that applies to all social interactions, and for me, that social order is expressed in the form of a strict D/s lifestyle, where those around me all have a given place, and that place is understood. I believe in the responsibilities of those that would claim dominance to those who are beholden by submission unto them, and the quickest way to raise my ire would be the act of stepping outside of ones place, or for someone who is responsible for another being to not uphold their responsibilities. I am set in my ways, and have many points that I will not compromise upon, though anything that falls outside of those points is often up for discussion, at least until I give my final word on the matter.What I seek; I seek others of similar mindset, regardless of orientation for discussion and debate, as well as for a possible polyamorous arrangement with a sensitive and intelligent female who is capable of understanding the existing dynamic, and adjusting in order to integrate with it, without creating a distraction, or a disturbance. I am happy with the way things are, and I do not NEED another slave. It is something that I MIGHT enjoy, only as long as it is enjoyable, and I have no tolerance for games, or power struggles often found in a poly setting. Things are the way they are, and that much will not change. The female in question would be extremely submissive, and understand her place as the new comer in this setting, and would clearly and honestly express her desires, needs, and expectations upfront, so that they might be accepted or addressed, and would be able to fit well within the existing structure.This is a lot of information to read in such a format, and thus, is as brief as it can be, without being useless. If you can understand what I have laid out thus far, and are truly curious to learn more, or even to simply discuss the lifestyle, or the content of this profile, feel free to message me, and more can be exchanged via email or IM, in further, more detailed discussion.-T
*Note: The photo is old, and will likely be replaced soon with a more recent snap.*
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I have always loved a place to post my obscure thoughts and views from time to time..where it might be read..or might not...so this is perfect.
Hrms..how to start this off in a proper fashion...
I have been combing through profiles, not specifically looking for anything particular, but rather, getting a feel for those who are registered here. I was nudged in this direction by others I know who are registered, and I saw a few things in profiles that actually..amused me.
"If you are under 30"....."if you arent atleast 25"...from people who are around my age. It is as if there is this magical number...a certain...threshold if you will...that makes someone 'dominant' enough to control a slave..to feed her submission and to bring it to bloom under a carefully cultivated touch. Is there a number atached to dominance? Must you have circled the sun a certain number of times before you are 'worthy' of a slave or submissives respect? In some peoples minds..this is obviously true.
Dominance is NOT a number. All age brings is experience...and while experience is perhaps a necessity to some....age is never a reliable indicator of what someone knows..what they can or cannot do. One would think, living an alternative lifestyle..seeking something outside the norm..that the normal preconceptions would be banished..and an open mind revealed...a clean slate if you will..waiting for all of these miraculous experiances..good bad or mediocre...longing to find what you dont see in the day to day world.
I have met people twice my age..who are half as dominant..and half as mature...I have met people twice my age..who lie about every detail...and weave a web of deciet that is strong and fast...
*Ill add more to this later..as I consider it more deeply*
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