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Greetings fellow kinky people! Welcome to my profile. I will start with a little bit about me as a person. I?m a fairly normal woman who just happens to also be sadistic and dominant. I have a life outside of kink, but kink is a *big* part of my life. I am originally from Houston, now living in San Antonio. I do have a few hobbies. I enjoy reading. I mostly read fantasy and sci fi with a dash of historical fiction and cultural studies thrown in for good measure. I also enjoy music. I have somewhat eclectic taste and I?m open to being introduced to new stuff to listen to. I like classical, especially opera. I used to sing it, and I tend to like what I used to sing? largely Mozart, Handel, and the romantic era composers. I also like industrial and some rock... and I?m a fan of a nice tabla solo. I love to dance as well. Especially to tabla solos! Unfortunately, my schedule doesn?t always allow for as much of that as it used to. I have a 9mm that I enjoy taking out to the range and improving my aim. Not an easy task for someone who is nearsighted with astigmatism! I?m fairly laid back most of the time. I?m generous and I don?t tend to hold grudges. I also have standards and expectations. Just because I believe in compromise and mutual gratification doesn?t mean I?m going to let people take advantage. Also, fair warning... if this sounds a bit stilted, it?s probably because I don?t really like talking about myself.
Ok. On to the kink stuff. I identify first as a human, second as a sadist, and third as a dominant. When I say I identify as a human first, it means I don?t like being treated like a fetish delivery system or the carbon-based support system for a bullwhip. I?m a person. I have feelings, needs, and dreams just like you do. Sometimes I even... *gasp*... fuck up! Yes, it's true! I?m not perfect. And anyone expecting me to be happy up on a pedestal had best be prepared for a fat chick (that would be me) to fall right on top of them at some point. What can I say? It is sometimes hard to balance in those 6? heels. And yes, I do have a fetish for the clothing side of things. So I do wear the 6?heels, the latex, the corsets, and the other fetish clothing. But no, I don?t wear it all day every day. On the sadistic side of things, I enjoy both hard play and sensual play depending on my mood. However, my idea of sensual play does still involve some pain. That?s probably because I?m a sadist! Go figure. My fetish list on here is a sample of the things i enjoy. But I view it as a starting point. I am always discovering new things i want to try. I also enjoy a healthy dose of authority exchange. I do believe that submission must be a willing submission. That means I?m not interested in takedown D/s. I?m not going to force you or drag it out of you. I believe in negotiation, everyone getting their needs met, and integrity. So if you are someone who likes to be a brat, wants to be made to submit, likes to test a dominant to see what you can get away with, or expects the dominant to *make* you submit? I won?t be a good fit for you. I expect honest negotiation and then actually doing what we agree to do. I may be laid back, but I don?t have much patience for people who can?t or won?t follow through on their promises. I don?t do punishment, so a submissive who lacks integrity or is disobedient will find that I?ll be one step closer to the door each time it happens.
If you have made it this far, I?d say that?s fairly impressive! Frankly, I don?t think a lot of people actually read these things.
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A brief note about friendship requests... I like to keep my friends list to people who I actually know and speak to. To me, that means discussion. Not "Hey" or "ur h0t" or the like. Not one sentence replies. Actual discourse over a period of time.
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As for the rest, well I'm just another kinky person on the internet. Nothing to see here... Carry on.
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Thanks to all the great people I've met on here, but I am taking a break from meeting anyone else at the moment. I hope to have my hands full for a while! And... because I like sumo wrestling...