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I am a 30 year old Dom currently living in the U.S. in the state of Tennessee.  I am exploring the possibility of moving to Queensland, around the Gold Coast area for a new job/business opportunity.  I am interested in chatting with those in the lifestyle there about what to expect as far as finding a sub, the local BDSM community and anything I might want to know about the area in general...

Some facts about me personally;
1. I have been married twice and am in the middle of the second divorce.  We are separated with 0% chance of getting back together, so it is as good as being divorced twice.  I am still good friends with my first ex (also 0% chance of getting back together), so if you are easily jealous, pass me by.
2. I currently work in the private sector as a manager for a motorcycle dealership and also as a police officer.
3.I am both intense and laid back at the same time.  I can be the most loving and generous person in the world, but also the most demanding and structured as well.  I am intelligent, attractive, sarcastic and funny. 
4. I am disease/drug free, a non-smoker and a light/social drinker.

Some facts about me as a Dominant;
1. I have been involved in the lifestyle in some way since I was 18.  I have trained subs online, in person for short term training and have had a collared sub.
2. I specialize in spanking, humiliation, pain, bondage and roleplay... I am not limited to these activities however.
3. I have a sadistic side and enjoy inflicting pain on a consenting sub, whether it be a simple spanking or an all out torture session.  I am not abusive however... all pain inflicted MUST be consensual and will never cross the line.
4. My overall style of Dominance is a blend of Daddy Dom, 1950's household and Domestic Discipline.
5. I have a nice selection of toys and implements, including paddles, canes and other kinky tools.
6. I always play safe and sane and believe in safe words.

As far as what I am seeking, there are several possible dynamics...
1. Spanking Only - You have been a naughty girl and need to be spanked for real life infractions or roleplay with spanking only.  There will be no sex involved, only spanking.  In this case, all ages, races and body styles are welcome to contact me.  This can be for a one time meeting or regular disciplinary sessions.
2. No Strings Attached Submission - You have submissive urges that you need to satisfy, but are not ready for a long term relationship or 24/7 Dom/sub relationship.  Activities are fully open to sex, spanking, bondage and any fetishes/fantasies that are mutually agreed upon.  Must be disease/drug free, age 18-45, petite to a few extra pounds and any race.
3. 24/7 Collared sub/slave - You are ready to fully submit yourself to me.  You want structure and rules and are ready to be punished if you do not follow these rules and live up to my high expectations.  Activities are fully open and only limited by hard limits.  Must be 18-35, petite to a few extra pounds, disease/drug free, non-smoker (or ready to quit) and preferably white (will consider all races).  You are able to function and appear as a vanilla girlfriend/wife in public, but will always know your role.  You want to have the aspects of a normal vanilla relationship, but also wish to have the man in your life control all aspects of your life.  You want to have at least one child with your Dominant (it is OK if you already have a child/children, but you must still be willing to have one of mine).

If you are interested, please feel free to contact me here.  I will then give you my instant messenger and e-mail contact information if I think we might click.  If I feel that there is a match after we have chatted/exchanged e-mails, I will then give you my phone number and work to arrange a public first meeting.  Also, if you are on the younger side, please be prepared to prove that you are of legal age.

I do not post photos for all to see because of my jobs, but will send photos to those that interest me.  I also want to see photos of you.

I understand that I am not your Dom and you are not my sub until we both agree to that.  I cannot be a Dom without a sub, and you cannot be a sub without a Dom, but that does not mean that the only thing needed is a Dom and a sub. We have to connect on many levels and that is not easy to find, but I am hoping to find my match here, whether it be a kinky playmate or my submissive soulmate.

I am willing to chat with anyone and offer advice/answer questions.  I will answer all e-mails that I receive.

Finally, I am also open to couples needing a Dominant male to assist them in exploring their interests in this lifestyle... Heterosexual only...