Collarspace.com

I have been in the scene for a long time, but only recently started exploring my switch side. I've taught a few how to use implements, so I'm not a complete novice. I'm looking for the right man, there has to be a physical and mental attraction for BOTH of us. I don't like beards btw! I don't want someone that simply says yes because they want to get their rocks off. I have to know that you are happy and want to see if we could develop over time into a LTR, just as you would with vanilla dating. I don't want payment or for jobs to be done and I don't want someone that says "do what ever you want to me" from day one. It's about talking and seeing if we share interests and get on. Meeting up for a coffee to see if we 'click', starting off slowly and building trust and respect in both of us. Then seeing if things can develop further, with submission, domination and love growing. Sm x