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At this time I am not available to meet. I hope this situation will change soon. Meanwhile, if you feel a connection, please feel free to send a message.
If you have any part of your body (naked or clothed) in your profile pictures, you're wasting time sending me a message.
Also if you copy paste your essay messages, if you're disrespectful in any way or obsessed with sexual things, don't bother. I am only a slave for the right Master when a connection is formed.
I shouldn't mention that, but the man I am interested in is scarce on this website, if at all.
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Hello !
I have decided to change my profile so that it's outstandingly clear:
Here are the non negotiable things I want in a Man/Master:
1. The ability to speak English properly (this means no text speech and the patience to write a message that has some capital letters to say the least).
2. Be assertive, but not arrogant and self-centered
3. Be single
4. Be capable of being tender and affectionate (by that I don't mean be able to fuck while caressing my cheek) and not emotionally shut down.
5. Want a connection that blooms
6. Want to spend time with me and be fully present in that connection.
6. Be a good combination between Masculine and Feminine - Yang and Yin. As in... I'm not interested in brutes, nor am I interested in feminine boys who pretend to be Dominant.
7. Respect himself, me and whatever he creates (including with me).
8. Be spiritual
9. Must not have pics of his cock on his profile (also if all you can think of and talk about is sex, please move on)
10. Be clean (but not obsessed with being clean as our body is a bit of a complicated work; There's a large difference between a nursery and a dumpster - ideal is somewhere in between).
11. Be decently close (a flight not longer than 6 hours) and relatively sane (this last one will have to be appreciated by yours truly :P)
12. Be between 30 and 55 years old.
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As for me... I'm intelligent and playful. I love rules and clear communication. And they say I'm decent to the eyes as well.
I'll be back with more info soon, but do drop a message... If we click, I have more to share.
Best wishes to all !
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== Results from Bdsm test:
97% Submissive
97% Girl/Boy
87% Pet
77% Ageplayer
67% Brat
61% Primal (Prey)
61% Vanilla
55% Slave
51% Degradee
39% Rope Bunny
24% Masochist
12% Switch
10% Exhibitionist
5% Daddy/Mommy
5% Experimentalist
4% Dominant
3% Master/Mistress
3% Voyeur
2% Sadist
2% Rigger
2% Degrader
2% Primal (Hunter)
2% Owner
2% Non-monogamist
1% Brat Tamer
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People should stop using "switch". The right word is submissive. :P |
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If you do not water a flower for days, it dies. If you water it with bad quality water, it also becomes sick or dies.
Same thing with everything. Attention is the only thing we have. Don't waste it. |
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"A master has to be a mother. A master has to be tremendously capable of feminine energy so that he can shower love on you; only then can he destroy. Unless you are certain about his love, you will not allow him to destroy you. How will you trust? Only his love will make you able to trust, and through trust, by and by, he will cut you limb by limb. One day suddenly you will disappear. Slowly, slowly, slowly… And you are gone: Gate, gate, para gate – going, going, going, gone. Then the new is born. "
Osho |
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THIS (is what I am talking about):
The Sun had a special significance for Rumi because it alluded to his master, Shams—the one who awakened the truth within Rumi. Rumi’s use of the terms “Shams,” “Shams-e Tabriz” (Shams of Tabriz), and “Shamsuddin” refers not only to his master but also to the many aspects of the Beloved, embodied in Shams: “Shams” symbolizes the power of grace, the power that awakens the truth within us; “Shams” symbolizes the inner sunrise, the inner light of consciousness, one’s own soul and its awakening.
Rumi writes:
Shams of Tabriz:
You are either the Light of God
Or God Himself in human form.
(fragment from Rumi: In the arms of the Beloved - Translation by Jonathan Star) |
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IMPORTANT ADDITION TO THE PROFILE
So… I have recently received some wonderful advice and ever since my mind won’t stop pointing out ways I can express who I truly am. And patience is not my virtue yet. So I’m going to write this right now and there's definitely more to come later.
I didn’t use to give much information on who I am for various reasons. One of them is because I can be molded.
On the other hand, considering that I like to think of myself as Batman’s female butler, I need to have some sort of resume Batman can look at, right?
So who am I?
I am a champion. I am someone who lost 33 kg and did so pleasantly, because I focused on the gains not on the losses and on making it easier and more pleasant for my body so it won’t kick back.
Because of the weight loss my body is not in the exact shape I would like it to be. I am not the perfect nymph you see on tumblr, but I’m pretty.
I think very highly of myself in many aspects, but I also have fields in which I’m still working on confidence. I am someone who tries to grow a bit every day . I have mastered many of my emotions and, in part, my mind.
The best lesson I ever received is: You are not your mind.
Your mind is a construct of all the experiences you’ve had so far. Does that make your thoughts right? Only somewhat. The daughter of someone who walks on wire will most likely never have the same thoughts as the daughter of an OCD germophobe who spends their time locked in their house. You know what I’m sayin’?
I also fear there will come a day where you’ll type something in Google like great and
Google will say something like: Did you mean gr8? Kidding. But am I?
I am a big fan of psychology, philosophy and self-development.
Although I am an ex-writer, I am aware that my current writing could use some improvement. It’s mostly because I spent time on the wrong mediums (like facebook), instead of books and brilliant people.
This is also one of the main reasons why I want a Dominant who speaks/writes better than I do. I believe you’re the sum of the 5 things you do most often/5 people you spend most time with. And I have a big inclination at bending and embracing a style as soon as I encounter it. Particularly when it comes to writing. And my heart jumps with joy when that happens. Imitation; Best form of flattery? I don’t know. They say you should give what you want to receive. That could be an answer. What do you give? :p
My biggest incentive is growth. It’s clear that I cannot grow with someone who knows less than I do. That’s also one of the reasons why I’m looking for someone experienced.
Am I over qualified ? Under qualified? I don’t know. I hope I am neither.
And as we reached the experience side. I’m not experienced in D/s . I can be sassy and foxy and submissive and many things, but I’m still developing and I’m certainly not experienced in D/s, although I did have an online Master for a while.
What I bring to the table is my power to fully dedicate. I think that’s very important and the deep connection is what matters to me most in a relationship like this. In spite of my perkiness, I am docile and in front of what I consider power I bow and easily bend. I don’t say “yes, Sir” to anyone, but when I do I truly mean it from the bottom of my heart.
I am also somewhat shy, particularly before I get a green light. I’m working on changing this. However… One of the main reasons why I’m looking for a Dominant is (apart from the natural fuck me Daddy, pardon my French) because I like to be pulled out of my shyness.
We seek people we can see ourselves in , but we also seek people who can make us complete. I am shy, you’re bold, I am submissive you’re Dominant. I know shy doesn’t equal submissive, I was just making a point. And, yes, I know much about duality and how it's in everything. :p Perhaps it is exactly because of duality that we seek to embrace both sides.
I believe that insulting other people says more about you than about them. I also believe that the way you talk about others says more about you than what other people say about you.
And I surely believe in "If you want to test a man's character, give him power." - Abraham Lincoln.
I don’t have a picture here, not because I have a problem with my looks ( I have a cute face and an average sized body, so I believe and so I’ve been told) but because of two reasons:
1. This site has true predators lurking around more than other sites. I’m not a negative person, but I believe in better safe than sorry, particularly as some predators can get nasty when refused.
2. I’d rather my Dominant would first consider my mind. I know men are very visual, but I prefer to avoid the wolves at first . For individuals who can’t focus on my mind, my face is not available.
To be honest, I'd prefer to talk before we exchange pics/cam, because visual aspects can be so cheating, in my opinion. Beauty is many times a construct of societal nature and so is programming like "you should look LIKE THIS, otherwise goodbye and good luck."
Also finding someone attractive or not can even be traced to that teacher who spoke nicely to you in fifth grade.
So, as said, although I've been called pretty many times, I prefer to focus on something deeper than that to begin with.
I can be sarcastic and I also love sarcasm from other people, but mostly the cute sarcasm, let's say the kind Seinfeld or Dr. Cox use (in Seinfeld and in Scrubs) not unnecessary meanness. I’m never impolite or sarcastic with people who respect me and I do my best at respecting everyone.
And I believe words can say a lot about you, even if you don’t plan them to. I also believe you can’t lie forever. Even if you do, you then become your mask/lie and it becomes your truth and the truth still shines.
I agree with Maya Angelou’s: “When someone shows you who they are, believe them; The first time.” However I'm also a supporter of second chances and imperfection. Perfect in my imperfection, yours truly.
Ok. I think I want to post this now. I should read it again and make it a part of something that makes sense and I will. But, hey… Maybe it’s a bit messy, but that is one of the reasons why I yearn for someone to put me in my place and straighten me up with some good orders.
I am also aware that presentation is half of the game and being a bit messy isn’t an excuse. But I’m still posting this today as I don’t think it’s bad. :p
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I am going to quote this from user forevaursSir:
"Is there any greater challenge in the world of D/s, than that of a sub seeking a Dominant? Not just a Dominant, but a Dominant who shares her perspective of the lifestyle. A Dominant with whom she can communicate. A Dominant who will treasure her and understand the precious gift she offers. The very nature of the submissive soul places her in a vulnerable state, and if she is young or inexperienced it is a formidable task at best. Not just because finding a compatible match is difficult in itself, but because the field of potential suitors is riddled with frauds, liars, domineering egotistical men who prey on the vulnerable – and – well – you get the point. Even for a wise, experienced submissive it is challenging. For a newbie – it is nothing less than a minefield. I find it amazing how little people could care less how they hurt someone, nor care about feelings, or what damage may be done." |
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THIS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lmyZMtPVodo |
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I may not be the jewel to everyone's crown... But, as they say, one is enough. :) |
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Quick word:
To answer the question "why am I not looking in my country?"
It's mostly because there's nobody I'm interested in here, D/s wise for sure. I have looked. At least online I have. And now I extended my search to Europe.
I do also plan to relocate soon. Not for a relationship, but for general living.
It's also obviously pretty complicated to run into people you're interested in. The Internet is in part such a lovely medium, with plenty of information, unfortunately it is often used for scams, deceit and wasting time.
I've heard many people complain that most users here are fake. When it comes to other sites, I just know 2 others that I cannot post here, due to site policy. And Collarspace is my favorite one so far.
Last but not least, for me D/s is a personal thing, not something I discuss at meetings with all sorts of peeps.
I hope this brings some more light to my profile. |
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Some quick thoughts...
I believe that being in a relationship should be the cherry on top of the cake, not the cake itself. And also that it should add to your joy, not make you feel bad.
I also believe a relationship should bring joy to both partners. Now, if one's joy is to be mistreated or to embrace painful experiences... Fine. There are people who desire to experience that in a large way, if I can put it like that. I am not one of them.
My version of D/s really isn't about pain, humiliation and abuse. I do sometimes enjoy experiencing them, but the circumstances just have to be right. And they're more like salt or even pepper to the food, not the food itself.
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Hello ! This Mark, I swear...
NSFW
http://drtuber.com/video/129748/mark-devis-and-sasha-grey-in-hardcore-punishment |
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This text belongs to Master Rey and it can be found in full version in His book The Olive tree, on Amazon:
"A confused sub came before a wise Master who truly adored her. She felt that to submit to him would mean she would open her heart to unbearable pain should he ever leave her... She hungered for him and needed him, but she was ready to walk away in panic.
The gentle Master had her kneel before him and began a tale of love and devotion. As she looked up at him, his arms began to widen and open just as a large tree stretches its branches to the sky. At that moment the Master appeared rooted to the floor and his impressive size towered above her like a giant tree. Then he began to speak...
I'm here for you. Now and always. No matter how far time and space may take us.
Whether you walk away from me today or stay and serve me, I will give you all the fruit ye, I will not turn from you. I am as patient as time itself. I will take not from you unless you give freely and completely of yourself. I give unto you regardless, for my love is unconditional. Like the olive tree that can both feed and shade you, I am here, as if eternal compared to your short life on this earth.
If you need my fruit to feed your hunger, I will give you all the fruit you need. If your skin grows dry and loses its luster, the oil from my fruit will restore it and make it glisten. When you need comfort, my leaves will gently caress your face with the slightest breeze. When you need discipline, my limbs will correct you when the wind blows strong. If you need my shade to protect you from the sun, my branches will shade and protect you. If you need warmth in the night, my fallen kindling will fuel the fire to keep you warm and safe. If you need a refreshing breeze, my leaves will fan and cool you.
You are my gardener. When you submit to me, you tend that which keeps me vibrant and full of life. When you kneel beneath me and till the soil, you give breath to my roots. When you water me, my sap flows strong through me and raises my limping branches. When you soil yourself collecting fertilizer with your bare hands, you strengthen me and humble me with your devotion.
Although my life would go on, life without you would not be the same. Your dedication and unconditional care for me keeps me vibrant and nurtures my very core. The sustenance and protection I give you seems little reward for your servitude. Still, the gardener serves the tree from her heart and the tree gives to her heart all he can. I am planted firmly on the ground and cannot follow if you walk away from me, but be assured, I will survive. One hundred years later and two of your lifetimes, I will still be here, waiting for you when you return in a different form. I will be here, in this very place, to offer you all I do now.
Stay with me and be my gardener. You cannot get lost in me, for we are complementary to each other. I am your devotion, and you give meaning to my existence. Apart, we live life and survive. Together we bloom eternally.
As the Master finished his last words, the submissive cried herself to sleep at his feet. That night, he stood planted like the Olive tree, offering unconditional love and protection, as she would tend to him with her devotion the next day... and everyday thereafter."
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Woooo, it's finally out, but because of copyright issues from Sony (I think), the sound is not the best so you may need something to improve it.
My beautiful, beautiful Red. :D Beautiful, beautiful monologue.
*sigh*
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B-DroIdPpzb2Y3Izd2RhWkxHc0k/view?pli=1 |
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I stole this from GrigoriRasputin. Very cool. :)
"Of cats and dogs.
Dogs are easily trained, and can be taught to obey Master. The title of “Master” is easy to transfer – a trainer can teach a dog, and then give it to somebody else. A dog will happily serve whoever he is with, showing all the tricks he’s been trained to do. People call dogs “smart” for that.
Cats, on the other hand, practically can’t be trained. They might have one person feeding them, and then for some reasons, known only to them, choose another person as their Master. They would follow him around the house, wait under the door when he’s taking a shower, purr when he pays attention to them, and claim the place on his laps. They can’t be taught for somebody else, and people call cats stupid for this…"
98% cat then. =)
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I am interested in the "Equalitarian".
http://www.asubmissivesjourney.com/dominant_types.html |
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And this from Renaissancebeast (it's pretty long, but yes, it's nice):
"What is a Daddy Dom?
The misconceptions surrounding this aspect of D/s. Most think that it involves a father/daughter relationship. That isn't quite true, Daddy/little girl is a much different level. First you should say that in my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and i have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy. You dont need to engage in age play specifically ( beyond the occasional school girl fantasy ) i am always all woman, and always a very independent woman. Daddy does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a very cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that i will revel in, it is the safest place i have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that i am without fear of reprisals.
So..what makes my Daddy Dom? First and foremost he loves his little girl. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him. Seeing her hurt however is not something a Daddy Dom wants. He sees it as his job to protect her, both from the outside world and herself. He may love to cause her great pain in a scene, but he hates to be the one to hurt her emotionally. It hurts him to have to punish her , but he knows it is sometimes necessary. This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.
A Daddy Dom knows the value of discipline, though at times his soft heart gets the best of him. He knows that in order for his little girl to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises. He knows this hurts her, and that tears at his heart, but he also knows it is for her own good.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive..acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn't matter. To him she is beautiful.
Many may be thinking what separates a Daddy Dom from any other Dom. In most cases very little. Hopefully all Doms provide love, strength, protection, discipline, and acceptance. Daddy Doms should be a kinder, gentler, Dom. There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand.
Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides.
So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care.
But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who, in his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created.
How does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying.
He accepts every part of you and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad. He loves you as much for who you are, and as for who you will become with his guidance. It is this love that allows him to train you. He could not invest so much of himself in someone he did not love completely. This love would not be possible without respect.
A Daddy Dom needs to feel great pride in his possession. He needs to know you can hold your own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it's value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and yet she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships.
In order for the little girl to really trust she must know Daddy means what he says. He must constantly deepen her respect for him. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If you the submissive finds that your can manipulate Daddy out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. ( This Daddy cannot happen)
He needs to empower her as much as he wants to possess her and it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. The discipline is also important when it comes to her protection, both from those outside the relationship and those within. Daddy is the one who makes the decisions about how she will relate to the world in general and his discipline ensures that she follows these rules. All Doms have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in their submissive's life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave.
This special bond is your safe place to also run and hide- when the real world in which you live now becomes too frightening , You have a Daddy to hold onto ....
And .....In every girl's life, there is a force, a presence, a Daddy, a Dominant she lives and breathes to love and honor. A Top is for tonight, a Dom is for however long they're needed, a Master as long as they seek Mastery, but a Daddy is forever
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Thank You For the Above Credit Goes To: Masterzchicago & Daisy |
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I copied this from Lookinground2day's journal cause I agree:
''I just finished reading 3 profiles and all 3 had some reference to casual sex. Mainly...if you're looking for casual sex move on buddy.... Perhaps it's just me and my strange way of looking at things but doesn't a statement like that automatically dispose of every single guy on here and 99.9% of all guys around the world. (That .1% haven't come to terms with their testosterone levels yet.). It should actually read as follows. If you're looking for casual sex and can't fool me into thinking you're looking for a long term, committed and monogamous relationship which I am willing to submit to you for because I like it...then fuck off buddy. Yup...I think that pretty much encompasses that thread. Hey! Guys want SEX. Women want commitment. Reaching an understanding and agreement as to what each brings to the table is the negotiation to get what we want. Now...if both people happen to really like each other...well that's a story for a different web site:)'' |
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Mmmmm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZefhNJPhzL8 |
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Kudos to natural selection in blank profiles that come together with one line messages. Hahaha You're a name on a page. That clearly spikes everyone's interest. Mhm. |
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This is very good. One of the best flicks I've seen: http://xhamster.com/movies/655672/rough_sex.html
I love how he keeps it playful and somewhat comfortable for her, although he's clearly in charge. Pushing it bit by bit... Very nice. And love the way he talks. |
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I've noticed that some of the people who are sending me messages are looking for slaves and speak of "ownership".
I'm not a slave. But if I do decide to get close to that for the right Master, for me ownership is more of a silent commitment, something that may happen when time is proper... Probably won't be spoken. More like the loyalty one shows to their hero. :)
I also like the idea of putting a sub in her place, but for me that place definitely does not involve licking your boots or eating from a bowl on the floor. More like means a twist of a wrist or an arm grab, or simply a word which shows power.
Complicated.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HyIHQFfj7UI |
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Oh and... I may seem bossy. Someone told me so. :) But, truth is, for the right person... I would have the uttermost respect. ;)
(Although that's not well said, because I try to respect everyone. I just don't agree with having bullshit :p. Let's just say the right Dom definitely wouldn't get the bossy part.)
Oh and... I don't really believe in male supremacy - based solely on gender. (Although I do believe in male dominance. Heck, it starts with the moment he pushes...)
What I seriously believe in though is excellence. ;) In front of excellence and power I bow.
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By the way... For those of you who send chat requests... The chat doesn't seem to be properly working for me so, if I don't answer, send a message maybe? :)
As for messages... If I don't answer it means I'm not interested. I don't see it as impolite. If I get messages that are exquisite but I'm still not interested, I always answer.
I won't bother to answer every little piece of bla somebody decides to send my way.
Best regards to everyone !
Good luck ! |
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