so back in february at the fetish fair i bought a new corset (is AWESOME, i also wore it to a sci-fi/fantasy convention where i got two meet my favorite author, i was dressed up in sort of a medisort of a chainmail bra but more meant to be worn over something not under) ... anyway now i'm kind of wishing  i'd saved the money and gotten a memory foam mattress, or atleast a decent mattress topper..... ah well guess i'll have to try to save up again.....

well i am now at the hotel for the fetish fair.... this is gonna be SO fun.

oh goody... turns out my car needs new break pads and rotors...  :(

Ok so my computer is having major issues... keeps crashing and restarting itself randomly.. and it wont let me restore it to factory settings, if you know my phone number use that if you want to communicate with me. 

OK i really HATE when guys say they will do something for me and  when a while passes and i end up saying ok i'll do it myself (or find someone else who will) they are all like No they will do it dont worry... and then i wait longer and they still havent done what they said... that really ticks me off..  

OMG HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY

OH MY GOD! it's only march and it's already getting up in the eighties... i SO am gonna be needing an AC so much sooner than i planned... 

Happy Birthday to ME!!!! 

 i'm planning on going to a BIG once a year event next weekend (february 10th-13th)  that i  dont get a chance to go to most years   and well it'd be REALLY nice if i actually had some spending money while there...   as is i'm having to split a room with like 8 people  to be able to afford to go at all..  

So I am all moved into a new place now... FINALLY in an apartment all to my self again and no roommate to have to worry about. But now  that i have more space for all my stuff again i really am  wishing i had some nice book cases or freestanding cabinets  (or even  almost any other decent storage type furniture)   to  be able to put my stuff into instead of in obvious bins and boxes...  SO... i'm kind of gonna be  on the look out for any guy who might be able to build   things like book cases or a  set of shelves for keeping my nicer shoes on  in my closet(needs to be "freestanding" not attached to the walls)  either that or a guy who has some power tools and is willing to loan them to me along with the wood needed to build such things myself ( though honestly i prefer hand saws over power saws, since i never got as much experience in with power saws as with other types of stuff for working with wood and am more comfortable with hand saws for that reason.. )  .....

 also, My birthday is coming up in february so  I'm hoping to be able to go out and have fun  with some friends in boston that day..  as well as i am considering possibly spending the morning taking a firearm safty class  which is going to be taught by a friend of mine... Yep...  i think it'd be really fun to start off my birthday with an adrenaline rush from getting to play with guns... it wont be my first time  but well i am still a beginner so the more i can learn the better even if i doubt i'll be likely to have the money to actually buy myself a gun  any time too soon.. lol... but well  i do feel that its only the smart thing to do since so many people i know  do own guns and i think  that anyone who is around guns in any way should know enough atleast be able to handle a gun safely if the need ever arises...

Ok... if anyone wants to get me any sort of gift off of my wish list please let me know first as right now the thing i am wanting MOST is furniture or a Dyson vacuum  and since i am currently splitting time between two apartments i'll need to know to be at the new one if/when either of those is delivered...  If you cant afford to buy me  one of those then i'd appreciate it if you'd get me an amazon gift certificate for whatever you CAN afford instead of other items  so that it can be put towards furniture or a vacuum ... (my old apartment is a furnished apartment so  i dont have a bed or much furniture of my own at this point which is why the highest things on my wish list for my new apartment  are convertible couches which convert into beds and can be used as both so that i can have something both to sit on and to sleep on in my new apartment.  If you want to get me a gift certificate for amazon.com let me know and i'll give you the email address to use... 

OK so for over a year i've been waiting  to get into a new apartment  (one of my own that i dont have to share a bathroom with the really prudish old lady that i have for a roommate where i am living now),  and i just got a call today from the local housing authority that an apartment JUST opened up for me today, i've been at the top of the waiting list for 2 months, and that the person hadnt given any notice but went in today and turned over their keys and said they'd moved...   Well...  Usually there is atleast 30 days notice given and i'd been planning on that part so that i could have that 30 days to round up the money needed to pay for the first months rent and security deposit, unfortunately i already  paid my bills for the month for where i am living now and the other  appartment that just opened up they said i have till monday to have the money  and get paperwork signed or else they will give it to the next person down on the waiting list and just skip me...  i'm short by about $230  and if i dont have it by monday  at the latest they are going to give the apartment to someone else :(  ,  I REALLY need to get into a different appartment though because i cant have the surgery to fix  the damaged disc in my spine untill  i've moved, because where i am living now if i needed to have someone over to help me out after the surgery i wouldnt be allowed to...  so anyway,  If anyone on here would like to help me out my paypal account is gypsyowl_donna_niteflirt@yahoo.com  DO NOT  try sending emails to that email address because  i dont check it, but that is the account to send the money to on paypal... please send it  marked as a "gift" .  ALSO anyone who sends more than $5  i will send one picture of a part of my body of their choice, however i will NOT send pictures of my pussy nor of my stomach, other than that it can be a face picture or feet or legs or even my boobs...  and  if you want feet pictures i can do  my toenails in either red or pink or silver polish..  i'm not sure where any of my other colors of nail polish are right now... 

OMG ...  so two big things today,   i got the most AWESOME  present off my wish list as of yet... Someone was nice enough to get me the Cat Genie that i had on there which means once i get a chance to get it set up i'll never have to  scoop or change a dirty litter box again but still have all the pleasant parts of having my two cats!  That is officially the most thoughtful gift i think i've ever been surprised with, the ONLY things on my wish list that could top that would have been a nice new mattress or a new decent computer (as opposed to the dinky netbook i've been using since my  laptop died almost 2 months ago.  and when i looked at my wish list it turns out someone also got me a pair of winter boots i had on there...  which is awesome too though those havent arrived yet. 

 second big thing today?  well its a sad one ... i found out that an author, who's books i've loved since i was in middle school , died.  The author? Anne McCaffrey,  though  it was nice to see that TWO of my remaining favorite authors wrote posts today about it and paid tribute to her passing by talking about how her books affected them and their writing. 

Yipee... so hopefully i'm gonna be getting a new apartment  middle of next month.... only problem?  right now i'm living in an apartment that came fully furnished  and that the furnishings have to stay here when i move out... lol.. (obviously since they are not really MINE) ... and well when i move into my new place its gonna be  unfurnished... so fun fun i'm gonna be stuck living in an apartment without any furniture for a little while since my savings is all gonna go into  the security deposit..  oh well..  i'll survive.. 

fyi people i've been feeling better a while now.. that post about being sick was in july and it is now september.  

Ok i am horribly sick right now.. so if i dont reply to messages for a few days that's why. because i've got the WORST head cold EVER and am trying to do everything i can to help my body fight it so it doesnt turn into a sinus infection.. i even put chicken soup and orange juice  and tissues on my wish list for now in case any of you  out there want to help me out.. 

Ok who bought me the stuff that just arrived from my wish list?

You know I really HATE guys who don't bother reading my profile before messaging me?  

ok.. so its getting about time for me to start thinking about if i want to dye my hair again since its getting pretty faded.  And i've decided i want to find out the opinion of  YOU guys.   What do YOU think? Should i stick with what i've been doing the last  year or so and Re-dye it a dark reddish auburn?  or should i go back to  what i used to have and closer to my natural color of a lighter auburn?   send me a message and let me know which YOU prefer I'm kind of on the fence at the moment about which i'd rather go with.