First things first - If you know somewhere inside your heart or head that you are not what I am looking for considering it is pretty clear by my profile then please don't write me, pretending being what I am looking for. If you actually found it worthy to read - great...send me a descriptive reply to me then...and if you didn't find it worthy to read until the end, I am not interested in meeting you at all. The reason for this? I would want you to want to get to know me enough to get you curious about who I am. If I only had 3 sentences in there, you could as well walk down to the street corner and pick up pretty much the first girl you see... because you would know as much abour her as you do about me, if you felt that my profile was too lengthy. If you ask me something that I have clearly explained in my profile, you will not get a reply... How can I fix a person like that? Someone doesn't care enough ?
So if you are not to 90% what I have described and have NOTHING MORE THAN BASICALLY AN EMPTY PROFILE I won't reply back because I don't have the time to GUESS what you are into but more importantly: why do you get everything served on a platter and you simply decide that I am not going to have that same option, if you are too young (younger than 40), if you are protected, protecting, own, married, has a gf/babygirl, shared etc with several people or on your own, most likely we are not going to hit it off as I am looking for like-minded people and SINGLE (unless you are a daddy and mommy) - - Thanks, so now we can begin reading the real profile, now when we got that out of the way.
Hello there :)
Tall, blonde, attractive little girl living in AZ, looking for a natural Alpha male or Daddy Dom (not someone who refers to himself as a Master -if your profile reads Master, then you are a Master right?) who have had these desires and lived them out for quite some time now and even had a little girl who you took care of. I finally know why I am the way I am, why I have done the things i have done in life and it truly feels amazing. I have been on this journey for at least 15 years but it is finally now that I accepted that this is my destiny - This is it. I can't escape who I am in my core and actually I don't want to - anymore. I want to be able to truly be who I am for the first time in my life - and be genuinely happy!! I understand the concept of being a little baby girl however I am strong-willed and independent (because life forced me to be that way - living on my own in a foreign country) and it will take a very specific Daddy Dom to be able to get the true little girl out in the open and make me truly trust fully and completely, and that is not done through arrogance. This is about chemistry and your energy. I will know it right away, if you have the right energy. If you have no or little experience or not the right energy/chemistry I will walk all over you and that I don't want. I am a babygirl/ slightly sub but will only give it to the one who truly deserves it. I am picky - as should you be. I am not into pain or anything that will give permanent marks or damage, - Also since I work as a model (no, no porn or nudity or cam shows, like someone asked...lol) I am in no position of getting any marks or bruises at all, and I understand this is of course a huge thing for many and also a deal breaker, well this is my dream that I am living right now so spankings are fine and I need them, with your hand but unfortunately I am not able to offer you anything more really in regards to as far as physical discipline goes - so no whips, canes, floggers etc. Those are my hard limits. And I don't enjoy pain at all, simply not my thing.
For me it is about the dynamic and the mental aspect of it much more, but I do have a true desire and a strong need to be a good girl. I love bondage and being restricted - makes me feel liberated. I love being daddy's girl and puppy play I find highly erotic as well. Both of those two can be very similar in a way. With me there is age-play is involved being a little girl. I need 'normalcy' in my life and can't be a little girl or a pet 24/7. I am seeking balance in my life and I am not into the local BDSM scene, unless maybe a house party with select few. I am never sub with a woman (I can change that depending on person and situation, but general rule is never ever sub with another woman) So I am not looking for a a Dom who has protocols, rules about everything and have a need of bringing out the whip left and right, because honestly would you do that if this was really "real"? I am seeking, a daddy/daughter/little girl relationship. I do believe I am happier when I am allowed to be the feminine woman and take care of her guy in the way he deserves to and at the same time be able to be the little girl that I still am inside many times. So please live a normal life and for me that would not be on a farm in the middle of the forest, please take into account that I live in the 5th largest city in the US, so it is unthinkable for me to have my closest neighbor a mile a way for example. I am sure you are getting the drift. To live secluded is one thing - to live in the middle of nowhere is something totally different. I am well educated, am originally from Sweden, been in the US for a little over 12 years, am fluent in English and am a feminine girly girl. I do have a tiny accent which is cute and adorable, or so they say at least. I am pretty business savvy and can be an asset in many ways I believe. If you want a girl who should not think according to you - I am not her. I also have 2 regular businesses and I work from home and have for the last 12 years. Who I'd Like to Meet:
A natural dom, an Alpha male & Daddy Dom who understand the mental/emotional aspects of a daddy/little girl relationship - the intimacy, the caring, nurturing side and is in a teaching mode, someone who would love nothing more than having his own girl to take care of and teach and discipline and love. Someone who is sane and doesn't get 'off' on being a sadist because it will only please him. Someone that actually respects me and care about me.
I am ultimately looking for a committed relationship & living together. Please don't be married or committed. I would like someone who is emotionally available. So if you are married, have a girlfriend, or fiancee you are not what I am looking for. Also, you need to be at the age of 38 or older, since I simply have a lot of life experience, living all over the world, have several degrees, and had many careers but I am now a business owner since many years and I am quite a complex person. Please DO NOT BE OVERWEIGHT. This is a serious request and I am not a babygirl wannabe who get off on the kinks only. Please if you are serious, tell me why you think we would be great for each other, based on what I have written and let me know what kind of life you lead and who you are. I am not on here to chat back and forth forever. I want to meet and hopefully start a new chapter in my life. I might be willing to relocate however ONLY to a place where it is nice and warm year around (I am from Stockholm, Sweden and am tired of the cold and snow and that is why I live in AZ) because I believe I look better in a bikini than a heavy coat. So, CA, FL and neighboring states, will be considered. (except TX, AL, MS) I humbly ask for you to have a picture on your profile or provide one when sending an email please, as yes, I might be a little shallow but there has to be physical attraction, so please be attractive (no need to be a model of any kind - just someone who takes care of themselves - because I do). So you have to be height and weight proportionate. You just have to be a classy/sharp dresser, and have a good job, because I do. SO DON'T BE OVERWEIGHT. I am not perfect, and I could stand losing a few lbs sure, but let's not get into the petty stuff here. You know what I mean when I say that ;) So if you are interested in what kind of person I would like to meet - you should be because that would be YOU and who I could see myself with, please read the next chapter about me and my vanilla life
So if you didn't provide a picture of your face and body (that actually shows you and not just a body picture), well don't be surprised if you don't get a reply - after all I have a ton of myself displayed. And you will probably get a slightly rude email back if you just ignore my very few first sentences here. And yes, I am 40 years old, I am really from Sweden and yes, that is me in the pictures which by the way are all taken since end of 2011. Hugs,
Your loving little girl, Carola
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"Every man wants a proper lady in public, a gourmet chef in the kitchen and a naughty girl in the bedroom." - I am all 3**
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And for the people who would like to know who I am in my vanilla life here is some more info about me
AND the things I am looking for in the vanilla life in regards to my Daddy: Things I enjoy for various reasons are; scuba (love it), jet skiing, boating, so if we are going to the ocean or the lake, keep in mind that it can be expected that I would want to stay longer...lol. I love to travel, love great food and champagne, watching a good movie & cuddle on the couch, racing cars, roller coasters, have great conversations, cooking, spending time with my few but really good friends, visiting Vegas once in a while just because it is - just Vegas. Other things I like or that makes me feel good are; thunderstorms, holding hands, being playful, being spontaneous, good coffee in the morning, midnight phone calls that last for hours, laughing so hard that my face hurts, no lines at the supermarket, lying in bed listening to the rain outside, running through sprinklers, see the sun rise, do charity work, fire places, see things grow, snow balls fights & eating Swedish meatballs at IKEA. I am originally from Sweden where I was born & so forth & ended up in AZ in '99. I am very sweet, passionate, compassionate, easy going, sensual, playful, open-minded, adventurous, spontaneous, loyal, caring, down-to-earth, affectionate, outgoing, considerate, thoughtful, has lots of integrity, a great cuddler & kisser, and am a good communicator. I am persistent, methodical & pragmatic (I own internet based businesses) & I am quite feminine with high heels & the right accessories on a daily basis. However jeans, is also something I wear well and often. I do want a passionate man who will make me feel safe in his arms at night, someone with lots of common sense & integrity, love to travel -preferably to the beach, classy, passionate, be silly at times, strict, be a great cuddler & spooner, a passionate kisser who likes slow, gentle kisses that last for days, be a sharp dresser & be emotionally available. Be over the age of 35. I won't respond to younger and probably not even consider anyone younger than 40. It has to do with life experience, not experience in the lifestyle. I have lived all over the world, traveled all over the world, we need to be on the same level, and I have lived quite a unique life actually, so you have to be something 'special' in order to attract me. Integrity is something I will question every time when needed - it seems many only have it certain days of the week or when it is convenient and that they are always the exception...go figure...so if you are one of those who can't fess up (yes even if you are a macho Alpha - as it takes great strength to admit when one screwed up or were wrong) don't bother contacting me. I am not looking for one of those abusive Dom's who rather die than admitting they might not have been right and they are making me feel that I am the one that is fucked up. So please don't sound like a 5 year old coming with excuses because it just shows how insecure and immature you are.