The man I seek is just that, submissive man, I'm not looking for a 'wife'.  He is an ass whore that takes my strap on on command.  He must be a pussy pleasing bitch, using his tongue to worship both my ass and my pussy.  He should feel the safest when he is bound by my ties, naked and exposed.  He enjoys pampering and spoiling me (like giving me massages, warming my car up before I leave for work when it's cold outside, bringing me breakfast in bed, giving me pedicures, brushing my hair, etc.)  Most of all though, he must be the friend I laugh and cry with, the lover I share my most intimate moments with, and the submissive partner that kneels at my feet with nothing but love and adoration in his heart, wanting nothing more than to please me.