I will sometimes flip through journal entries here, and time and time again I am amazed by the people who demand absolutes from thier servants, subs or slaves. While I do expect to be honored and my word followed as if it were law, there are some things I'm able to respect. Job, home life (kids, family and such)...the law...you know, the things that I myself need to deal with. (Minus the whole kids thing, thankfully...)

Example. If I want you to make Me a gormet dinner nude, FINE. I may even command it if the mood strikes Me. I wouldn't ask you to go pick up the take away in the nude, because you'd GO TO JAIL. 

I would always expect you to refer to Me as Mistress, Miss, etc. when we are together. In front of your children though, (should such an awkward occassion arrise) I am called by My first name. Nobody needs to tell a 5 year old why they called that lady "Goddess" and licked her boot. 

Furthermore, if I allow My servants to call Me Goddess, what frelling business is it of yours? I'm not claiming to have any divine power here, but if you're that much of a fool that you've got a problem with Me being referred to as Goddess, then why don't We just dispatch with all of the frilly names We go by? No longer will you be "Severe Vampyre Lord Damon"  or "Mistress Scarlette Jayde Monroe"  but instead Todd Liebowitz and Henrietta Jones. 

They give themselves to Us, often, in an all encompassing manner. For Us to guide them and mold them to our ways. Training th things we like into them, beating the dislikes out. But they don't have to give themselves to Us. They can just as easily choose another Domme or Dom, so before you readily throw away your toys, remember that somewhere behind the locked collar and begging eyes is a person too. Might be a person who deserves a solid spanking....but thats another journal entry.