I don’t consider D/s to be an “alternative” relationship style. Rather I consider it to be an undiluted relationship. In it, both partners are able to reach into themselves and share with their partner all facets of who they are. There is a potential for acceptance and understanding that cements a bond.

To that end, I am not looking for a “master” who believes that the job of the sub is to accept everything and ask for nothing. To me, that is a caricature of the reality of D/s. I am not looking for poly situations, because I want to be the only one. And I am not looking to facilitate any men who are married and/or looking for a fling.

I am intelligent and educated, and value that in a partner. I need to know that my partner is capable of making solid decisions for his life, my life and our life. I want to explore all that life has to offer with my partner. This means I want a full relationship inside and outside the bedroom. Please have interests that you can share and a full life that you can invite me into.