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Hetero Male Dominant, 34,  Galax, Virginia
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*For kinks, see the section at the bottom.

If youre interested in what Im looking for, please scroll to the bottom. In short, Im looking for a connection with a s type, and a 24 hour, TPE, LTR.

The Good Stuff

Hey. Im Phoenix. Im single, and I have no children. I seek a long-term relationship, but am open to opportunities that present themselves. After some intense soul searching, I believe I am best suited to be a daddy dom. Im just moving into the Daddy realm, but have always acted in Daddy ways in my past relationships, without realizing it had a name.

Friends are always welcome. Just strike up a conversation and well see where it leads. Please be open-minded.

Nilla

My interests include counseling, reading, video games, intellectual discourse, computers, current events, going to the gym, and watching football.

I love sci-fi. Big fan of movies in general. LotR is my all-time favorite trilogy. The Force Awakens got by on nostalgia and to me, was underwhelming. Marvel Movies are also great, and the Avengers is one I can watch again and again. My favorite series is Iron-Man.

Regarding football, this season is not as great as I expected, but Im just waiting for it to be shut down by covid anyways.

As far as books, I like almost exclusively non-fiction, inational books. I dont read quickly, so I want to make sure I get something practical out of it when I do. Im definitely not the guy who will recommend the latest, hot YA yarn.

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Before I get to kinks, a bit on how I view safety. SSC, RACK, whatever floats your boat. Know the risks, agree to them, be as safe as you can, and no permanent damage. That said, play can be as extreme as you want, provided it does not break those rules.

Heres where I tell you what makes me kink.

Control. This one I have experience with. To have someone do as you say is hot. To get in their head is very hot. To do it literally is beyond hot. Thats why I want Relyfe Programming, a of hypnosis.

I want to watch others get humiliated and degraded. Typed word - I am VERY good at it, and I regularly fill requests in forums. It is about power and control, and I like to employ it regularly.

Oral is my number one kink. With my FWB, as soon as the door closed, she was on her knees, sucking me off. She wanted more action, she had to use her mouth to get me ready. I like to use my legs to pull someone closer while theyre giving me head. I use gags, belts, and other s of restraint to bring my partner closer. I love closeness during oral sex. Really makes me feel like Im one with the other person.

Bondage is what I have the most experience with aside from oral. Watching you wear a rope harness and it feels so good you cant walk. I will just smile and evil laugh. I also bind your hands unless you make good use of them during a blowjob, or because the mood strikes me. But what I really want to do is predicament bondage. Oh, the possibilities

A Ds relationship. Ultimately, I seek a slave, and a timeless love story - just in chains. But all things in time.

I have other, lesser kinks, but those are the main ones.

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 Spellbinder83

 Dominant Male

 Galax 

 Virginia

 5' 9"

 200 lbs

 34

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 07/04/08

 

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Friends

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Humiliation

 Liberal Politics

 Body Building

 Football

 Loves:

 Movies (Expert)

 Begging

 Blindfolding you

 Bondage

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar

 Corsetry

 Being Massaged

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Gags

 Hair Pulling

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Sensory Play

 Shibari

 Vibrators

 Watersports

 Wax Play

 Arcade Games

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 TV News

 Web Surfing

 History

 Intellectual Discourse

 Nutrition

 Psychology

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Polyamory

 Likes:

 Aerobics

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Walking

 Weightlifting

 Cages

 Chastity

 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Rear End Play

 Hoods

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)

 Munches

 Objectification

 Sensation Play

 Public Play

 Spanking you

 Suspension Bondage

 Whips

 Board Games

 Chess

 MMORPGs

 Online RPGs

 Simulation Games

 TV Sports

 Cooking

 Photography

 Chemistry

 Economics

 Mathematics

 Physics

 Writing

 1950s Lifestyle

 Cuckolding

 Nineties Music

 Oldies

 Pop Music

 Rock Music

 Tolerates:

 Yoga (Beginner)

 Curious About:

 Fire Play

 Modern Primitivism

 Rituals

 Sky Diving

 Dislikes:

 Swimming

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Journal Entries:
12/14/2017 8:57:55 AM
I have read the following books to expand my knowledge in this area: The Dominant/Submissive Training Guide Pillow Talk: A comprehensive guide to erotic hypnosis and Relyfe Programming The Loving Dominant Exactly What To Say Master/slave Relations: Handbook of theory and practice Will read: Screw Roses Send Me Thorns People Follow You and the M/s relations series by Robert Rubel

10/28/2017 5:24:40 AM
NOTE - I am a stroke survivor, 3/29/17. UPDATE - I have entered intensive inpatient rehabilitation! I may be better sooner than I thought. I have lost a lot but it looks like I will regain it all. Until i walk, I am unable to weigh myself. I can take take pictures, but not showers. I'll show you my trach scar, and verify via picture, but you won't understand me beyond "Hello" over the phone. The stroke got my voice. It's coming back, like everything else. I have nothing but free time so I'm reading to increase my experience. I keep losing, getting smaller, eating for fuel, avoiding snacking...but the number is a best guess.

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