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What are you looking for?
Are you tired of so-called "dominants" who expect you to obey their every command from the get go, simply because they claim that title and you claim to be a submissive? Are you frustrated by "men" who think that, just because you have offered yourself to them, you have no feelings, no desires, no thoughts of your own?
Are you weary of searching in vain for someone who understands that submission is a gift, to be joyfully accepted and appreciated for the beauty and the pleasure it brings into a relationship, for both people? If so, you may want to keep reading.
I am not new to the lifestyle, and I know that many of the people who claim to be "dominant men" fall into two categories: people who simply get off on feeling like they are "in control" and making other people hurt, and those who pretend to be dominant because they think it will get them what they want.
I am not a fool, nor am I a pretender, and I have no time to waste on those who are. I am here looking for a submissive who is interested in something different: a man who, while having no doubts that his will is the stronger, and that his place is to rule, still respects women as people.
I also do not expect a woman to submit to me right from the beginning... I understand that submission has to be a gift willingly offered, and that developing that kind of trust takes time. What I DO expect is to be treated with the same respect that I treat others.
If a woman offers me that kind of trust and submission, I expect her to honor that, or to ask to be released. I am a caring man, but also very strict, and I believe that a submissive needs firm guidance to grow. While I do not like doing it, I will not hesitate to punish a woman who, once having given an oath of service, steps outside of the guidelines that I have set for her.
I do not very readily share personal information about myself. If you want to know more about me, you can always ask, but understand that I will only answer if we already have a rapport going... I feel no need to disclose everything about myself from the beginning, and I do not expect anyone else to do so unless they wish to. A D/s relationship is a growing, learning thing.
If you are interested in talking, whether just for idle conversation, online play, or looking at the possibility of a real-time D/s relationship, write me a note here on Collarme. I am not willing to relocate, however, so if you decide that you want to go real-time with me, you must either be local (within Massachusetts), or be willing to relocate.
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