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SolarPhoenix

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My name is Phoenix, the Master and head of my poly home. Im an intellectual, and work in IT; I enjoy being creative and building things. I have plans to build several fucking machines, and equipment for my little basement BDSM dungeon which is still under construction.
I am also a master that plans and calculates and rarely tells anyone my plans unless they play a role in them. I am kind, caring and affectionate most of the time, however that should not be mistaken for weakness or leak of dominance. As at the same time I also have the capacity to be cruel, sadistic, and uncaring if needed. So if you are nice and respectful you will get the best from me, and if you are not the you will get the worst. If you crave pain, I have no qualms about give it to you, as I know how to cause pain without actually causing permanent harm. If you crave control, then I will give you purpose and a goal. SO that you may be useful to me.
I don’t create any illusions about what I want or what I will do; I very rarely sugar coat anything and will tell you what is on my mind and what I can do. So feel free to ask questions, I won't bite; unless of course you like it.
Anyway on to something more personal and slightly less BDSM related.
I don't have an 'ideal' partner, rather a preferred type of partner. One who is willing to be a part of a poly family. I live with two trans-gendered MtF women whom I love dearly. One is my pet, and another is one of my mates. By all accounts it isn't a typical kind of relationship. However, Me and my family have found that it offers great stability and flexibility.It is complicated yet fulfilling in many ways and is quite strong and resilient. It isn't a typical relationship type, but for a woman with an open mind who wants to be with a special person and surrounded with a family of close friends who will love, protect and understand you with an equally open mind. I'm am looking for a sub, a slave, or a special someone whom will accept me and my relationships for what they are and isn't worried about fitting perfectly into societal norms or typical relationships. It's not for everyone and I don't hate or judge anyone for whom this is to much or not their particular 'cup of tea' I understand that everyone has certain things with which that are comfortable and won't try and force my point of view on anyone. However, I encourage curiosity and will gladly answer any questions or curiosities you may have.