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People tell me I should say up front that the person I am looking for can be either straight or Bi, either sub or slave.
Also I need to note that I am a Satist/Dom and my partner needs to be a pain slut.
What I look for in a potential full time partner is by some account idealistic and to some unrealistic, but I do not think so, yes I have placed the bar very high as I think everyone should when looking for a long term relationship.
I first look to see if the other person is serious about the responsibilities of the relationship, this has nothing to do with how good they are at play.
It has to do with their need and willingness to serve and be a servant. Can their most basic fundamental needs be met by doing nothing more then keeping the house clean or making dinner.
Is this person going to be absolutely loyal and honest with me, for that is what I give in return.
Is this persons morals based on personal integrity, personal honor and following the most honorable path available to them. Has nothing to do with the morals society, the government or religious groups force on us.
Does this person have a high self esteem and have a high self worth, if not can it be brought out and enhanced through training with the Dominant.
Is this person's heart and sole dedicated to the lifestyle as a way of life? Not some fad or means of obtaining kinky sex and erotic play.
Is this person trust worthy can I tell them my most intimate secrets.
Will this person trust me not only to tell me their most intimate secrets but trust me as a Dominant to the point where they willing give up the right to any limits or safe word?
Does this person want and crave to go down the same path I am on, the type of play I enjoy.
Does this person crave to explore and expand their knowledge of the lifestyle as a way of life?
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My search still goes on, I have moved from Southern Calif to Portland Oregon. Haven't had the time to check out the local scene yet.
Did get in some Salmond fishing, my cusin and me pulled in seven fish, BBQ'd the largest one and smoked the rest. Sent some down south to the crew down there.
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Finding the right slave is not a short term project; I am not looking for the party girl that just wants to be shown off or the slut that wants to be used by every swinging dick around.
I am looking for someone that wants the life of a slave and is willing to put forth the nessary effort it takes. |
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