i have been in the lifestyle for about 4 years. i have taken the last year to reflect on whether this lifestyle was really what i wanted or needed. i have reached several conclusions.

Conclusion 1: i do need the lifestyle. i feel a definite void without it. It is my place to be subservient.

Conclusion 2: i am difficult. i am bright, articulate and love to laugh. If given an inch, i try for a mile. i tend to say what is on my mind and often am a smart ass. i am not for the weak of heart or someOne who cannot be strict, fair and consistent. i push buttons and test often.

Conclusion 3: i am not looking for a quickie or just sex. i am looking for someOne i can respect and trust. This does not happen overnight or in a single conversation. If You are not willing to take some time to get to know me, i am not the right one for You.

Conclusion 4: As we all know, this lifestyle is all about trust. Trust takes time. Lies and games are not a part of it.

Often people want a physical description and since i will not post a picture, i have medium length red hair, blue eyes, light skin and i am full figured.

Ok, well, thanks for reading. If You think You might want to get to know me better, please write.