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| I will be the first to admit that I am not the best at telling a person about myself because what you see is what you get when it comes to me, but here goes nothing. If I miss anything, please message me about it.
I go by the name of Christopher Chance. I'm pretty new to this site, but I am definitely not new to the lifestyle. As far as the everyday vanilla stuff with me goes, I guess you could say that I am sometimes a loner. Technically, I'm not, and I am generally a nice person, but my inner circle is so small that I sometimes wonder if that's really the case. I usually try to enjoy life to the fullest. I've been skydiving before, I've traveled to plenty of different places, I sometimes call myself a rollercoaster nut, and I still look to try anything new. While I do enjoy getting out, one of my guilty pleasures is me being a gamer, and when I say I'm a gamer, I don't just play certain games. I play all of them. I especially love beating the harder ones like Battletoads, the Souls series (not the fighter), Contra. I will also admit that I am a pretty huge geek, and not just because of my affinity for gaming. This includes anime, the comic universe, the occasional game of Shadowrun, and movies. I've also learned many different things because of my geeky nature, and all of that has helped me to get where I am today, so I'll be the first to say that if you can't handle that, then you definitely can't handle me when I use that side and combine it with my darker side.
As far as the Master side of me is concerned, I have had nine years of experience as a Master, and two years as a vanilla Dom. I've learned through experience that I can be pretty sadistic sometimes, but that makes things all the more interesting to me. Generally, I am a fair but strict Master. As of right now, I am currently looking for a new slave to serve and submit to me. It doesn't matter how much experience she has, but she has to be willing to learn new things and push her very limits. I've had plenty of experience with TPE, raceplay, humiliation, and plenty of other things I don't feel like listing but is willing to go into detail on if you ask about it. Eventually, my end goal will be to build my house back up from years ago that I had to disband for reasons I will not get into right now, but for now, I am only searching for one slave that I wish to take under my wing for LTR. I am also not opposed to talking to many people on here just to share experiences and build connections within the community again. With that being said, please, feel free to shoot me a message.
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UPDATE (08/31/2016): Got a Fetlife account for you if you're interested. Just ask if you're interested.
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I've recently met with a few slaves as well as some other Masters this past month. I don't knock anyone for what they like or don't like because that's on the individual. However, once you include me into what you're trying to do, I'm just going to give my opinion, and leave it at that. Trust me when I say that I know I'm still technically a "young" Master. Hell...I still look a lot younger than I really am. (It's a blessing and a curse, and it irritates me whenever it's said too much around me.) However, for me to be as "young" as I am, a lot of the people that I seem to be getting involved with are a little...tame. Like I said before. This is NOT knocking what other people like or dislike. However, for the past couple of months, I've been bored dealing with people who said they loved doing things as if it would be candy to them, and then I watched and got disgusted when they froze up and immediately tapped out as if I was in the first round of a UFC fight and I end the fight in five seconds via submission! Don't get me wrong. Even I have my limits! I don't take any pleasure in things that can cause serious physical harm to anyone among a few other things that I just don't feel like listing right now. (Maybe another time, I'll list those.) However, there's a lot of things that I love to do, and seeing damn near every single one of these supposed Masters say they like the same things I did and then be shown otherwise has made me a little cynical with some of them. I can somewhat give the slaves I met a slight pass due to me thinking they were stupid for saying they were ok with something they really weren't. Those Masters, however, are completely different! Just wanted to vent a little. I might have recently found a slave that I could be happy with, and if so, everyone will be in for a treat! If not, my search will continue. However, I see now that I will have to adjust my screening process a little if I ever wish to grow my House again... |
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I haven't written an entry here in close to a year. That is definitely due to the majority of fake profiles I've come across. Truthfully, it turned me away from the site. However, a random message brought me back, and in the time I've been back, I've actually been pleasantly surprised! Still have plenty of the fake profiles here, but I've been able to talk to more people than I thought I would when I came back, so why not give it another chance. This is a short update, I know. And plenty has changed since I was last here. However, that'll be all for now. |
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So, I've had this thought recently, and in attempting to rebuild the House I use to run years ago, I realized I want to build my own way. Hopefully, this will not be offensive to anyone, and my apologies in advance for if this turns long winded and becomes a rant, but this is simply me free writing what comes to mind. I've seen firsthand how believers of other way can be towards some people, and truth be told, it sickens me. When I joined the BDSM community years ago, I joined understanding that once you join, you kinda give up your right to talk about anything else seen in the community. (Defending your beliefs is an entirely different argument that can be talked about another day.) In knowing that, I've made it a point to not turn away anyone willing to learn because of the fact that I've had that happen to me plenty of times when I first started out. Know that during those times, I did attempt to respectfully ask for help understanding what I was getting myself into, but for many reasons (being too young, not being racist enough, you haven't done anything yet, I claim to be bi/pan but act like a hateful lesbian feminist, pay me or I'll make sure you never learn, etc.), I was always turned away. Because of that, I had to teach myself everything without any help whatsoever, and while I learned a lot that way, it took a while to do that, and I can say without a shadow of a doubt that I would have learned it faster if I had the help. However, enough about that. It did take me years to learn what I want and what I like, and I've gotten pretty damn good doing what I enjoyed. I also learned what I hate seeing, and I made sure I stayed as far away from those things as possible. For example, I had somebody swear up and down that I'm not a Dom because of the fact that I don't capitalize every single word of everything I say, and that is personally one of the dumbest things I have ever seen. If that's what you really believe makes you a Dom, then that is your beliefs and I won't just walk up to you to tell you that you shouldn't, but that doesn't mean I think it's stupid as hell, and I will tell anyone such the moment you try to force that on me. Another example is the fact that I am a pretty nice guy, but some other Doms for some reason believe this to be a form of weakness. It's those people that I have to wonder about. I already know some of them are just idiots, but then there's those that seem to be out of touch with a few things. I usually try not to mess with them, but sometimes, it can't be helped. I do wonder if they know this is like the yin yang. I know that will go over some people heads, but I will explain that to those who ask. Unfortunately, this is going on a bit longer than I planned for it to, so I will close by saying that I will follow my own path for now on. I will respect what other people believe they have to do, but my path is just that. Mine. If you follow that path with me, so be it. If you don't, I will respect that, but please, don't try to tell me my way is wrong when I can say the exact same thing about some of you. |
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So, I've been on this site for about a month, and I must admit that while I like it, there are certain things that I have to address here.
1. For starters, I must state right now that I do not wish to take any males as my slaves. I DO NOT WISH TO TAKE ANY MALES AS MY SLAVES. I said it twice, so when I block you for contacting me (unless you are a Dom), don't take it the wrong way. This also goes for both pre/post-ops. At some point in your life, you were a man, so I will consider you as such still. If that offends you, I really don't give a damn because you don't care to consider the fact that while I do not have a problem with what you do, you don't give a damn about the fact that I want nothing to do with it.
2. Any slave that becomes mine must be in shape. I am not saying that the person has to be a stick or the female Arnold. I am saying that you have to be in shape. I work out a lot, so I will eventually have you work out with me. Once again, that doesn't mean I will not talk to you if you have some curves because if you can keep up with me, you're in shape. I get some people have certain problems, and if you do, I can respect that, but that doesn't mean I will give you a pass on this because this is pretty important to me.
3. My profile does state that I live in the state of Mississippi, which I do. However, it says I am willing to relocate for a reason. That reason is the fact that I plan on moving pretty soon. SO, if distance is a problem for you, it shouldn't be because I will be relocating soon, and I will keep you updated on that. I am not going to force you to accept that, but that is something you should keep in mind.
4. I WILL NOT BE TALKING TO YOU ON ANOTHER SITE, THROUGH E-MAIL, OR ON SOME FORM OF MESSENGER UNTIL I HAVE TALKED TO YOU ENOUGH ON HERE TO DEEM THAT AS SOMETHING I AM WILLING TO DO!!! I WILL BLOCK ANYONE WHO INSTANTLY REPLIES TO A MESSAGE TELLING ME TO DO SO!!!
5. TO GO WITH THE PREVIOUS NUMBER, I WILL NOT PAY TO RENT A SLAVE FROM ANOTHER MASTER!!! I AM LOOKING FOR MY OWN, SO IF YOU ARE OWNED, AND YOU TELL ME TO PAY TO OWN YOU OR RENT YOU, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED!!! With that being said, if you ARE already owned, I have no problems talking to you in general, but all interest of me owning you is gone. I will politely decline if you're owned and ask to do anything with me, but I WILL INSTANTLY GET PISSED IF YOU ASK ME TO PAY YOU TO DO SOMETHING WITH YOU BECAUSE YOUR MASTER WANTED YOU TO DO THAT!
I am sorry if that was long winded, but I had to say that and get that out there. If I offended anyone, I apologize that it did, but at the same time, I really don't care because this is a pretty big deal to me. |
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