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SilverHairedTop

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Seeking submissive women! If you're a man, TV, CD, or anything of this nature, go away. I'm not interested!
9/1/2009 4:34:02 AM
I think CM needs to put somewhere in their profile section just what level of experience someone is looking for.  I've had the pleasure of living this lifestyle for 30+ years and yes that means I have learned quite a bit in that time.  Not just about the lifestyle, but about myself  as well.  I know that people come from all economic, social, racial, and gender stratus in this lifestyle and that is part of what interests me so much about this lifestyle.  One thing that bothers me though is when some make an "outright" statement; such as "...for all to use..." in their profile.  Or one of my favorites "...use me hard and then..."  So what happens when these people are written?  You guessed it!  No reply!  I often wonder if CM doesn't put teaser profiles up just to maintain interest.  Maybe that's why there's no reply. 

OK!  Now I've had my rant for the day.
5/21/2009 4:12:15 AM
New Rant for the day:

Judgemental people!  They claim to be open about their lifestyle and when written they refuse to read or reply because the writer is not of their sexual orientation.  Big fucking deal!  If you want to talk about the lifestyle, talk about it from both sides of the fence, not just your side.  Personally I could care less if your a man into sucking cock or a woman into eating cunt.  That's your thing, not mine, but you have the right to be who you are, at least in my opinion.  If you want to discuss the lifestyle with someone more informed than most (I have 30+ years experience) fine.  If you only want to talk to those sharing your gender role, fine!  Just don't make a broad statement that you are willing to discuss this lifestyle with anyone and then shuttle all opposite gender roles to the Bulk file (which you never check).  If information is what you seek, don't turn your back on someone because they don't share your gender assignment.

By the way!  It is my opinion (nonscientific) that we are born the way we are.  We don't one day wake up and decide, "I'm gay" or "I'm straight" we are just born this way so get used to it.  Yes it may take until puberty to discover this, but that's what growing up is all about.  So grow up already.  Just because I'm straight, doesn't mean I'm your enemy or that I want to change you.  I couldn't change you if I wanted to because you are who you are supposed to be.  Be proud of it, but don't hide behind it.
5/12/2009 8:09:41 PM
I just had someone tell me about the new feature "Recent Journals."  Why is it that so many write novels and fantasies in their journals. I thought a journal was a place to keep your thoughts and if you want to let others read them, fine.
5/11/2009 3:40:01 AM
Why are there so many wankers (men) lurking and pretending to be women.  If your desire is to be used by a man or to submit to a dominant woman, just come out and say it.  This doesn't mean that you will be any less a man, it just means you will have finally admitted to yourself that you know who and what you are and have become comfortable with that.
1/18/2009 3:53:32 AM
I just read this on another profile,

"Wouldn't it be a good thing if CM put an extra area in the profile listing. "Willing to relocate: In state only.  Anywhere in US.  Anywhere."

This makes a great deal of sense to me, I'm all for it.