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Sefton

Hello, my name is Sefton, and I am a dom. I believe that combining dominance with gentlemanly good manners and elegance is a winning combination. I didn't choose to be a Gentleman Dom any more than I chose to be male, though that given a choice I would much rather be this way than any other. The fact of the matter is that dominance is just another part of my overall personality. There are those that need to remember that being dominant is not a replacement for having a personality. It is no replacement for wit, wisdom or respect. Anyone can intimidate with gruff manners and abruptness. That is not dominance, it is domineering. Dominance is achieved by being both confident in yourself and elegant in your manner. There are aspects of being a gentleman which might seem, on the surface, to be in conflict with being a dominant. There are those that would argue it is impossible to be both. I assure you it is possible and even desirable to combine the two into something which is greater than either alone. If you agree or what I have written has piqued your interest, please feel free to drop me a line. Be well.