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Searching4Fsub

Searching for a submissive Female.
I've been everywhere, and done it all (almost). I work hard, and play hard. I am successful in everything I set out to do, mainly because I approach it with the right attitude. I like to go non-stop, but I'll slow down a bit for things that matter. Ironically, keeping my life as simple, stress-free and drama-free as possible is a priority. YOU: Fun, and intelligent. If the word "average" is an adjective you would use to describe yourself, then we would probably not mesh very well. I am far from average, and mediocrity is not my cup of tea. I do not want someone who is just going to stand there and observe; I want someone who is going to participate and can keep up. I want someone that can bounce between a sophisticated vanilla setting in one moment, to being on her knees at attention in private in the next. I take care of myself and stay healthy. I expect my sub to do the same. BDSM: I have about 5 years of experience in BDSM, though it hasn't been all continuous. I'm very open-minded about the whole thing because I believe, as is true with most relationships (vanilla or not), that you have to cater the rules of the relationship to the individual needs and desires of the two people involved. Dominance and control never mean exactly the same thing to each person so I'm always willing to listen and lead my partner into the kind of exploration they crave. I am much more about private play as opposed to hanging around public BDSM scenes.