It's complicated - as it so often is ...
Have lived a conventional-illa life for too too long - but more recently have been exploring this side of the wall, which is where I belong. I have always dressed in black leather as an expression of my inner being - but now spending a lot of time writing about where I am and sharing this with others - which has been very fulfilling and invigorating. I am searching for submissive women who are keen to explore the darkier edgier areas of their minds and the various ways of expressing those areas physically. In particular I'd like to connect with women who love to be wrapped up in leather / rubber / PVC - who like to wear thigh boots, corsets, biker gear - who enjoy the physical constraints imposed by such clothing and the visual message which it conveys - but who wear such clothing as an expression of sensual desire and submission - and not, at the opposite end of the spectrum, as the uniform of a Domme (just to clarify that point!). I am dominant - but never insensitive.

I am in a vanilla relationship and have been so for a long time. My partner is fully aware of my search for connections and of my need to connect with others on this side of the wall.