Collarspace.com

4/30/2008 10:05:59 PM

Howdy all.


I gotta say no disrespect to those who do such a thing but I believe it's wrong for a Dom to send his sub to find another sub for him because to me the Dom is the leader and thus far he should be the one who does the searching because in the end it will be him training her and guiding her and if he can't put in the effort to atleast find her then should he really deserve to tame her but I can understand the benefits of having a sub find you another one because although the sub has to be compatible with the dom, she must also be compatible with the alpha sub as well and by having the sub do that she can find someone in which she believes she is able to deal with but by also doing so one can say is she really looking for a sub for her master or a sub for her because if it's someone she likes then truly can one believe that she may have part domme side and is looking to tame this girl herself but yet still offering her as gift to her master. Anyways Like I said I do think Doms should be the one to find the "sister sub" but still I can see the benefits and disadvantages of having a sub do the work.