We are a fun and down-to-earth couple living in southern Missouri. While BDSM lifestyle plays a large role in our lives, there is much more to us – both as individuals and as a couple.

He is 45, Dominant, heterosexual, and has 25+ years experience in lifestyle. She is 27, submissive, bisexual, but has only recently gotten very serious about her 5+ years of interest and casual involvement. As a couple, we are very devoted, loving, and quite affectionate.

We enjoy a diverse range of activities, both in lifestyle and out. We regularly attend play parties and munches with the local BDSM groups, and we are both exhibitionists. He can be described as a tender sadist, while she is something of a pain slut.

We are intellectual, creative, and slightly nerdy (we embrace this), and we have shared interest in astrophysics, astronomy, time, philosophy, ethics, poetry/literature, and film. For all that, we are also a bit goofy, and we love to laugh; we both possess playful and whimsical natures—so while we might discuss Stephen Hawking, we will (sometimes in the same breath) quote a Monty Python sketch.

He is self-assured, nurturing, patient, and caring; she is sweet, compassionate, and sincere. We are very honest, open, and straight-forward—neither of us enjoys unnecessary fuss or drama. We are very open-minded, however, and we believe that relationships should be finely tailored to the needs and goals of the individuals involved.

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We would love to find a submissive bisexual woman with whom to share casual play or possibly a relationship (in r/t). We believe that BDSM begins in the mind, and while we do have a very active and energetic sex life, we are not in it for “just sex”; we tend to be quite sensual and erotic, and we love how BDSM deepens many aspects of interpersonal relationships.

However, if you are interested in sexual play, she is comfortable in her bisexuality and is very sensitive to females who are new or only curious, and she would be glad to help you learn more about yourself in this regard. NOTE: She is submissive to him and will not be acting as a Domme at any time.

Any submissive who wishes to play with us must be more than just a “sub” – she should be intelligent and take pride in herself, both in lifestyle and out. A sense of humor is required. We would prefer to have someone who is as exhibitionist as we are, but if you aren’t comfortable with public play, we are completely respectful of limits; we want you to have as much fun and fulfillment as we have.