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SadisSir

Where do you begin? What do you say about yourself to entice a woman to speak with you other that to be honest. I'll start from the begining so if you get to the end and are still interested well shoot me a line. I was introduced to BDSM at a relatively early age (19) by... well I guess you would say a working girl. Thats a long story in and of itself. After that I was hooked. I went from being "normal" to pervert in one night and haven't looked back. That being said I have learned alot in the years since my turning...lol I am a Dominant person though sometimes its hard to find someone that fits my personality. I have learned that all Dominants/ submissives are different and each has different needs. I dont expect anyone to just be ready to serve. It takes time, there has to be a "click" and alot of trust. You dont just get the last item on that little list, it has to be earned. Well as to what Im looking for. To start friendship. If that works out, then we can go on to more pleasent and painfull pleasures. What I am not looking for is an already owned slave, (I dont want to put my time into something and not get anything out of it; unless its friendship) a poly relationship ( I like to keep my submissive/ slave to myself... call me greedy), or a switch ( I did mention I am a Dominant peronality right?) =122910= As this is a work in progress I think an update is in order or tell you more about myslef. Ok I know there are a few things left unsaid since my last update. I am about 40... that being said do I expect a hot bodied 19 yr old coming up to my profile and saying "Yeah I want him!" dont make me laugh. Again Im almost 40 I have an almost 40 body. Its been used and abused... Well for the most part. I have been doing my best to keep myself "in shape" However; I sit for eight hours a day and work out maybe one or two Im not is as good of shape as iIwas when I was 19 so dont expect Arnold in his prime. Heres something less physical. I am an avid gamer. Any type of game I enjoy them all. I was in the SCA at one point in my life and would to be again. I enjoy all things fantasy. You could call me a nerd but what I do for a living may surprise you. Thats all for now I'll up date more as it comes to me. Thanks for reading this and if your interested let me know.