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A little about us:
We’re a couple from the north-bay. We’re here mostly for friends first, as we believe that’s where all good relationships start. We are firm believers in that every relationship is as unique as the individuals involved and that we have to let the relationships we form become what they will. In short, we won’t try to force a friendship unnaturally into more, but if a friendship does turn into more, we generally are ok with that. "More" can entail anything from play partners to semi-closed poly-situations. We don't have to be super serious to play with others, but we do have to have a certain level of trust and mutual respect in order to play.
We describe our relationship as polyamorous because we are currently playing with a very select few others (together) on occasion, and eventually would like to have a form of poly D/s triad or household. We both enjoy being Dominant.
We both qualify as nerds: Videogames, Firefly, Star Trek, Star Wars, Dr. Who, etc. (the list goes on and on) and are always willing to have a good geeky discussion.
We also both enjoy being active both in the community (the Citadel) and outdoors. Camping, hiking, etc. Nature is amazing and peaceful and sometimes it's great to just turn off the electronics and enjoy a nice quite evening (vanilla or kinky).
T is the more Dominant and more experienced of the two of us, so I guess that makes us either Male-Dom or Dom-Dome couple.
About T (Male): I’m pansexual, dominant, caring, and I can be just as gentle as I can be rough. I endeavor to always be a gentleman even as I'm making a sub whine, whimper, cry, and cum (if they're good). Respect is important to me, but I don't ask for titles until I feel they have been earned. So far in this journey I have never had to ask a sub to call me 'Sir' because I've earned the title and been given it before I felt that I should ask. I'm really into sensation play. I really like taking my time to not only enjoy a scene (or relationship) with a sub, but also figuring out what it is that makes them tick. Taking someone into subspace is the most euphoric experience for me, and almost always puts me right into Domspace where the rest of the world just seems to melt away into nothing until it's just me and my partner. I love meeting new people, making new friends, and learning new things. I'm always attempting to be better at everything I do...Almost a compulsive need to be the best I can be. Right now I work in the financial sector but once J is done with school I'm going back to get a MS and Ph.D.
My FL username is Votal
About J (Female): I’m a lesbian (sorry boys) with one exception: T. I really consider myself "Homoflexible" because I can dominate a subby boy, but it won't really involve sex, at least not with me :P I love my short, spiky red hair (not my natural color :/ unfortunately), and can be a total goofball sometimes. I love my two cats to death and love nothing more than snuggles after a rough play session or a really hard day. I have only recently discovered my Domme side but I have the greatest teacher in the world. I really like sensation play, and the psychological aspects of power exchange. T is my primary partner, and the only person that I am submissive for...what can I say, he's just that amazing. I'd love to get more experience as a Domme to other women. I’m currently close to achieving a Bachelors in Engineering.
We’re both constantly learning and growing. Join us on this adventure called life, send a message and we’ll strike up a conversation. We also are getting more and more involved in the lifestyle community around the SF Bay Area, so don't be surprised to see us at the Citadel or at a Munch sometime.
My FL username is Arctana
Our search for the "unicorn":
We are searching for a female sub or slave to turn our relationship into a poly-triad as a long term power exchange. We won't do that until we meet the right person and are very comfortable with them. That takes trust, and trust takes respect, and respect takes time. Once again, we believe that it's best to start as friends, always, and find compatibility before leaping into something like this.
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