My 3 legged half tailed athsmatic wonder rescue cat is going into the vet. The extra $ drain will mean I can't join y'all at Kinko, have fun. maybe we can do a lil something here for my birthday in July as a group.

Will be going to Columbus, Ohio on Oct. 4th for the 30 seconds to Mars concert. If anyone in the Columbus area has any good info on local hotels let me know.

I love the number of females on here who state up front that they are taken, not seeking, or no males please. Or worse yet they try to say they aren't interested in certain types of men or MUST see your picture or have special constrictions on age or race or whatever because they are looking for Mr. Perfect. Yet they hang on CM for long blocks of time and still contact guys when the mood strikes them. Please be as real about the lifestyle as you are about actually meeting to have fun. And if you can't be real about yourself and what you want please move on to the next profile I am neither desperate nor do I wish to play games with wannabes or hypocrites. Thanks. If you are so closed minded that you cannot separate your luggage or prejudices please move past my profile. Each person is an individual and deserves the same fair shake as the next. Summarily dismissing them because they are in an open relationship means YOU miss out on good opportunities, YOUR loss. If you're THAT quick to judge without getting to know someone based on past luggage without even giving them a chance then YOU are intolerant and inflexible and probably should reexamine YOUR core values and your reasons for searching for fun in this lifestyle because you aren't willing to do a genuine search for quality friends. This is a CHALLENGE for YOU to be honest with yourself, NOT a rant. Some general advice: If someone has a long laundry list of I don'ts or I won'ts especially if they claim to be "submissive" its probably best that you skip their profile until they grow up.  If you insist on trying to make things work with these people you'll wind up dissappointed, yet again. Hopefully they will one day realize that you have to put things like perfection, personal past luggage, and any other type of unrealistic attitudes aside if you want to be taken seriously in this lifestyle. Some of the best times I've had in the lifestyle are with older BBW's that are laid back and yet realistic with what they want. Take nothing for granted and realize that we only have a short time on this earth. Why spend it being so constipated and uptight that you can't have fun?

I've created this profile in the sincere hope that there are females out there who are truly interested in bondage, BDSM, or TPE. Contact me I will NOT play games and be up front and honest, bluntly so usually. I'd appreciate the same in return.