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sweetemptation
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| PI am not new to this kink and would like to find that "one" who wants to explore it even more. I can be funny at times and serious at others but the one thing that is constant is my desire to live life to the fullest.� I will not write anything flowery or poetic here to entice your softer, gentler submissive side, no, thats something you will give or not give.� Anything less than that is not true to what you are after, and its not true to what I desire.�If you are the one that can create that "spark", and If I do the same for you.....lets see where it goes and lets build a fire.
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Wanted: One female who wishes to walk down the path of life with a male, who enjoys the freedom that comes with complete honesty, in and out of the bedroom. She will be attractive to me, and I to her. Barbie?..not at all, but rather that one who has the "spark", the "ohhh wow" factor that makes her the apple of my eye. She will enjoy being mentally challenged, as well as challenging me in return. Iron sharpens Iron, and this is a good thing and nothing to be feared. The fact that she is intelligent, simply makes the power exchange that takes place when she willfully abandons her control, giving that up in a moment of trust, even more of an honor. She will be open to new and exhillerating experiences, some sexual in nature, some purely a physical/mental adventure. This woman will be looking for the one who is her last partner, the one she wants to grow old with. I seek this woman with the knowledge that not all people find what they are looking for, and I for one could possibly fall into that crowd. I will refuse to settle for anything less. I am not into a one night fling or a two day scene. I want the real deal. I have messaged several of the people on this site, and have not changed in my desires. In the event you wish to consider enjoining me on this journey, please feel free to respond and let me know. I will also say that I am unable to be tied to this computer and after several emails, you should understand that I work and because of time constraints, I would rather talk on the phone as opposed to spending the next three years emailing back and forth. I hope this sparks an interest, and if it doesnt, I will always wish anyone the best on their journey, after all, we all want the same thing. To be wanted, and to find the one who allows us to be all that we were meant to be. Don't settle for less. Happy holidays and Happy Trails! |
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I feel the strong need to post this warning. Due to the time of the year, and the weather please be advised that in the event you recieve an unsolicited invite for a scene, and it comes complete with a time and date, and location, DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT dress up in all the garb, your best leathers, the brightest chains and such forth and then quickly traverse across a major city, to only find out it was an invite to participate in a Nativity Scene. You have NO IDEA how hard it is to blend in with the strangers bearing gifts from afar. (Which, by the way, if you google "Afar", you too will find out that no such country exists therefore leading to the speculation that this may have been the first recorded case of an alien visitation.) In the event that such a thing does happen to you, take these steps immediately. 1) blend in with the strangers from afar and pretend that you are simply wearing the customary clothing of the day. 2) Begin asking for directions to the commercial shoot for "Capital One" while cussing some made up agents name. 3) Simply ask where the Metalica concert is. If this fails to placate the crowd, in your deepest and most menacing voice, ask for volunteers. (Soon, no one will even look at you in fear that you may take them away for something they have no idea about).
This is not a form of community service, just a view point from one man. Happy Holidays everyone!!! |
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wow....what a difference a few years makes! I want to thank those that enjoyed the laughs, for the encouragement you gave. I am in the midst of writing a book and even though it has nothing to do with the kink, or even sex for that matter some of the kind words spoken/written/conveyed here have been fodder for those moments when writers block has set in. As a belated update, I will say that I have relocated to the Kansas City, Mo. area for employment reasons, and as of so far, I am really enjoying the area. GO CHIEFS... I am single, and that is okay due to the fact that I am still raising my children, and will be for a couple more years.
I still want what I believe we all want. Someone to share this thing called life with. (is this where I realize all the preceeding verbage should have been on m profile, as opposed to the journal?...ummm I guess I should be embarrassed. ...but I am not. Then again, I dont send dick pics either...what the hell is wrong with me???? I quit dragging my knuckles years ago... and, hard as it is to fathom, I DID leave my club in the cave last year and ventured out without it. DIDNT even need Dr.Phil! (the club I can live without, HOWEVER, if you happen to find my book "How To Reinvent The Wheel", PLEASE send it, I am getting tired of the square tires on my ox cart making indentations in the driveway.... Happy blessings, Happy Spankings...and mannnnny moooooore! |
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Recently read a book titled: Bondage and furniture, makeing them compatible. So, (puffing chest) I quickly ran out and purchased 100' of the best hemp rope. Ran quickly home and with a heart beating a hundred miles an hour, triumphantly proclaimed..... KITCHEN TABLE...YOUR MINE!!! (Insert the sound of crashing dishes....pots and pans being swept aside, chairs being tossed to make access easier!) I quickly tied the legs individually with four of the best half hitch knots I have ever tied....even took pictures~! Then, ran a connecting circle ring thru all of them and pulled the draw chain tightly!...IT WAS INCREDIBLE...the table couldnt move!!!!! I then went about the rest of the evening...hurling four letter epitaphs at it, occassionally swatting it with a leather flogger but with intermingling swats with my calloused hand. THE TABLE FOUGHT TO REMAIN SILENT...and damn sucessful it was too!...(ruffling my brow, {wait? wait? wwait? ruffling my brow? is that done with a potatoe chip or is there something like a curling iron that does that?...ohhhh nevermind...} ohh yes...CLEARING THROAT... ruffling my brow and stareing intently at the table...I spoke in a direct and consise manner and said "Your going to break before morning" and walked away to let THAT sink into its hea...hea? hea?.head??? tables dont have heads?..TOP! ..YES, it sank into its top... wow, thats amazing, now the ole water stain from a sweating cup looks alot like a light bulb symbol...OMG..the tables thinking? geez, and I got alot of sleep last night.... ohh back to the story... this is where I have to use the "To be Continued" line.....(sorry, I just tried to fax a picture of my face to someone and my eyebrows are now heavy from the dust build up and I have to go dedust._) ...secretly wondering how many people are wondering whats wrong with me... lol |
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UPDATE! HOLD THE PRESSES! someone actually is interested in me!...(Personally, I think it has alot to do with my deep, masculine voice, my dark tan and features, my intricate command of the english language, ...NNNNnnnaaaaaaa! Its my neighbor who wants me because I can really do some cool stuff with wood and textures)...ohhh BUT, there is someone who I just messaged back tonight who is possibly interested...HEY DAMNIT...its my little box here and if the possibility of getting to spend time with someone makes me smile and use extra fonts, THATS my business! lol... (singing to myself .."If you like pina colodas....and getting caught in the rain,...if your not into healthfood, and are into champagne..".. Great older tune that is the "Hope of Love" surmised in short. Okay...taking a poll now: How many people just feel a little bit better when someone sends a message that at least hints of interest?...WHY is that? Is there something wrong with me/us that we need or want that "stamp of approval" from another? Or, is it that we are so looking forward to having someone walk down this pothole fllled road called life, with? Or, do we just miss getting laid?..ORRRR.all of the above?.. interested in what others think....
In my real world, FINALS WEEK FINALS WEEK FINALS WEEK! |
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I am currently experiencing technical difficulties. (Well, not really, but I always wanted to say that) I had a good weekend doing the Mr.Mom thing. Took the kiddos and two nieces out to boon dockville and had some fun with them. Its strange though. Maybe I am too old fashioned in some ways because I wanted to have someone "special" to share it with but didn't. Not complaining, merely stateing fact. I guess its not really normal to share the fact that even though we are at this site, we still have private lives and just because we may be a bit different, doesnt mean that our "normal" lives are mutually exclusive from this kink. What am I trying to say?....chit, wish I knew for sure. I think in my utopian world, I would have someone who understands the balance between this world and our normal world. lol..if thats possible. Balance? I am fortunate in the sense that I have only had one partner within this realm because even though some can have multiple partners and emotionally they are fine, I unfortunately, am not one of those. There has to be "the whole enchalada"....the normal world, the kink, love, submission/domination...working together towards goals, mutual respect, ...blah blah blah. But its not really "blah, blah, blah" I need those things and hope to find another who does as well. Can "mutual respect" be had within the realm of bdsm? of course it can but I find its a trade off to some extent. I can handle someone who is bossy or controlling as long as within the privacy of our kink, I am in control. Is that self serving?..chit, I have no idea and I have far too many other issues of the heart and mind to deal with to waste time on trying to figure that one out....So does that make me a less dominating dom?...In some respects it could be taken that way, but if the goal is to get two people to the same destination, and if by being less "dominant", gets us there..did I not accomplish what we were after? Isnt that the goal? To get where we both want to be? (and enjoy the travel it takes to get there?) Okay...got school work to do. Yes, school work.!lol Working on my criminal justice major and who knows, once I get that done and have my degree, coupled with a white apron I could possibly work at a dunkin donuts. ..lol |
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I read the profiles, and yet I am amazed... alot of comments about flakes, a few wonderfully writing journals (ya know, the type that make you want to come back and read some more just because they strike a chord that resonates within)...Then there are the messages. I actually thought mine was pretty clear, I mean, at least from my perspective it is/was. Apparently however, its not. To clarify. ohhh chit, what was I clarifying?...ohhh yes, the fact that I have had two wonderful experiences within this realm. One, was a great friendship that still endures today even though it has been awhile since this particular couple and I have spoke. Rena and Calvin where are you!>??lol.... the other was a one night stand that went on for three and half years. Best thing I have ever experienced. Unfortunately, we didnt take the time to take care of the "vanilla" side, and eventually, the other side went down too. Lesson learned, heart burned. Anyways, I am not here to simply get off on some twisted kink, its either going for broke or nothing at all (exceptions are friendships)... hope this clears things up and I look forward to making new relationships and talking with those that want something more. |
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Hello peoples! (anyone with a pulse qualifies), in the event you do not have a pulse, I believe your at the wrong site. What is the correct site?...(insert something witty and funny here) okay..on to business at hand. Its been kind of amazing...Most of the responses I have received are very intelligent, well thought out and nicely articulated. So as to not mislead anyone here, I do want to reiterate that I am after a long term relationship that incorporates a power exchange as well as some facets of this kink. I know everyone's time is valuable so I will not waste yours. I have posted a pic here, and would appreciate you having one as well. I am continuing my search for the "one", I do not care to play games or have a back up plan, when its the one, the whistle will go off, the inner bell will chime and my knower will know: just as yours will. I have tried to be respectful and mindful of other views and wants/needs ect...do the same for me and we will all join hand in hand and sing Kum Bi Ya. Ohhh, hope your heart smiles today!!! |
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I recently received an email from a wonderful lady, she asked me a series of questions that I thought were great and I want to share those with you. I am assuming she will not mind. Her questions were listed below first, followed by my answers. If you wish to ask anything of me, please feel free. I do want to encourage you though, in the event you are "interested" in someone here, or any other site, ASK them these questions as well. I will not feel slighted in the least and shouldnt be. I say this for your sake. If thier answers do not line up with your own personal desires, think about it. If that particular thing were to NEVER change with them, can you accept that? If not, why venture down a trail that already has an end before you ever begin?..Dont do that to your heart, or your would be partners heart. Stay true, stay honest....and may your heart smile today!
Do you make your partnerfeel nervous or fearful in your relationship? There are times when "fear" is a valuable tool, the difference resides with wisdom as to when to use such a tool
Do you have a "bad" temper? Things that are important to me, and justify being adament about can cause me to react with what some may view as a bad temper, but I consider such reactions a part of being passionate about something.
Do you expect to be careful to control your behavior to avoid his/her anger? Please reiterate your question here and this time do it in such a way that it makes sense.
Do you make your partner afraid to say No to sex? I have reasonable expectations in regards to how a partner/lover/mate/bitch should WANT to treat me in this regard, and as such, like any normal person, I can create an environment where failure to meet such a basic need/desire WILL result in knowing that you have disappointed me and therein lies the consequence.
Do you make your partner feel powerless in your relationship? Only in as much as the ropes that bind, or the crop that stings.. (smile)
Do you want them scared of disagreeing with him/her? Scared? no, respectful and reasonable yes. Able to follow the thought process far enough out to realize that failure to maintain such a view WILL result in knowing that you have dissappointed me and once again, therein lies the consequence
Do you criticize, or humiliate your partner in front of other people? Public humiliation is a psychological tool that does have certain entertainment/pleasurable facets. I typically, would not go into that realm of play unless she has expressly stated she enjoys it. BUT then, its gloves off and I will do as I deem fit.
Do you check up on her or question you about what you do without you? Only when the well being of the two parties is at issue will such behavior be allowed. I have no desire to "track" someone, but would rather have their complete submission because they choose to.
Do you act jealous of the time she spends with other people? I have no reason to be jealous and refuse to waste energy or time on such an emotion. If there were reasons to be jealous, then THOSE reasons will have to be addressed.
Do you call her names? Yes, they may range from "babe" to "FUCKING cunt" and a myriad number of other labels that are appropriate.
Do you scare her with violence or threatening behavior? If such behavior causes her cunt to drip with cum, then enjoyably so.....
Do you prevent her from going out or doing things she wants to do? Only if it were to interfer in a want or need that I have. I will explain in greater detail at an appropriate time of my choosing.
Do you withhold approval, appreciation or affection as punishment? Yes. Just as a good spanking conveys certain thoughts or emotions, withholding of affection and approval can do the same thing. (However, seeing you tied, bent over a chair, ass and cunt wide open for my pleasure is much more enjoyable.) |
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Its almost funny....emphasis on "almost". I read profiles from both sides of the coin, and it amazes me that people can profess this particular view or that particular view, but yet dont know what they want. I can empathize with those who have yet to experience anything other than the calling that stirs deep down inside that says "there has to be more! there has to be more!!!". At least those that fall into that category have the gumption or will to at least venture forth and attempt to make some decision. BRAVO! Good for you! To those in that boat, please, be careful, be wise and most of all, be honest. I am a rather plain sort...but I know what answers that call for me. I can be quite unassuming, undemanding, even to the point where one might confuse that with ambivilance; not the case. I have been called "Slow" because in the middle of a heated argument, I wouldnt respond fast enough to suit the other person. Okay. If that is what one would chose to believe, that would be fine, however, WHAT if.... what if I simply want to choose my words carefully because I KNOW what words can do...Does having that consideration make me a weak dom? Does taking everything in, so to speak, BEFORE, one makes a determination as to which way they are going to move forward, does that mean I lack decisiveness? Or, could it mean I chose to steer a path that builds up, encourages, uplifts rather than one that seeks to reach a selfish end? I continue looking. I cant stop looking. I will maintain hope. As for anyone reading this: Remember, keep your heart happy and wear a smile because those two things do more for your beauty than any odornments ever will. Ken |
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I am currently soul searching while yet not having given up on the prospects of still finding that one person who not only values the sexual side of this kink, but values the emotional and spiritual implications as well. This is not merely an opportunity to "act out" fantasies, though there is a certain sensualness that is witnessed when a person shows thier willingness to lay aside their claim to independence, to freedom of choice, to give up their "right". There is nothing more beautiful/sensual/exciting/uplifting/ that moment is beyond words and to have experienced that once, for me, means to never settle for less than that level of honesty and trust. I recently left a three plus year relationship (couple of months ago) where the dynamic was in place and it couldnt continue on due to issues beyond both our control. I value love and will always believe that even in this environment, it can still be maintained, nurtured and grown, but it will take time.....
Is it worth the effort?..UNDENIABLY YES!.. please forgive my typos and I hope everyone finds what they are after. |
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