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| I'm seeking a friend first and foremost. Someone I can talk to and laugh with throughout the day. Someone who enjoys my company who allows me the pleasure of serving him as my Dom and enjoying him as friend, lover and leader. I hope to meet a hard-working, focused and disciplined man who has gained wisdom and insight along his life travels to share with me and build our life.
I do not need your money, I have my own. However, I know there is a certain discipline and sacrifice required in this day and age to be self-sufficient. How can a person be a Dominant and lead if he has not mastered himself? If he has not secured his own destiny? I want to follow a Dom who has a sense of himself and the responsibility and commitment required to be a leader.
I am not the right submissive for the Dom who is only seeking a broken spirit to manipulate into accepting and expecting nothing because of his assumed title. I have nothing to offer you,,, the best of me will not benefit you in any way. There is more to being the submissive than being the person who sucks the cock, removes the boots, offers her body face down and ass up at all times, bears the flogging, the clips, the piercing, the collar, the brand, the wax, obeys the orders, cleans and cooks,,, if that is all you require from your submissive,,, I will not enhance your life and you will never use the best of me. Ignore this profile.
The person, whom I can respect, submit too and follow, who can find a way to use me to grow and enhance his life, will be my true Dom.
My true Dom will not be intimidated by my capabilities. Instead, He will see me as an enhancement to his leadership and life, not a threat. My gifts, placed in His hands are tools to use or assets to cultivate and are under His ownership and control. He will push me to grow and do better, knowing that my efforts and success reflect His guidance and leadership and are His to own and manage as He sees fit.
My failures, both personal and professional, privately and publicly through disobedience, laziness or neglect will be recognized as the ultimate disrespect. This behavior dishonors my true Dom and is inexcusable, resulting in the harshest of corrective measures. Dishonoring my true Dom calls my commitment and submission into question and is always, inexcusable.
My true Dom will recognize when I'm slipping out of control, failing to respond appropriately or promptly, failing to sincerely display deference and respect; He will take appropriate measures to bring me back under His guidance firmly, effectively and promptly. Hopefully before my failings escalate into an unforgivable transgression.
My true Dom will understand that life forces submissives to suppress their true natures. He will not be intimidated by the resulting fully competent behavior. He will instead cultivate trust, display leadership, exercise control and draw His girl under His protection and into cooperation and obedience.
He will see through the façade and recognize her need for His hand to take control. Any resulting power-struggle is simply testing by the submissive of the commitment of her true Dom. He will step in, He will guide, He will demand respect and deference, He will control. He will establish Dominance and Ownership and his trusting, faithful, obedient submissive will bow to His will.
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Having been on CM before, and left - disappointed in the preening and self-appointed lunatics full of bluster and demand. I believe I am better prepared to cope with the participants here and will manage my expectations and responses better.
I hope you understand that I will not be calling you Sir or Master or any such thing until we've met face to face, determined we are compatible and decided that is the direction we want to go. And if I decide that it would be in our best interest not to meet, I will not be bullied, insulted or brow-beaten into compliance. Because I choose not to meet you does not make me any less of a submissive -- it makes me less of a coward for not allowing myself to be forced into a situation I know is not in my best interest.
I don't know you and you don't know me. I don't understand why anyone thinks they've earned such deference from a complete stranger but you haven't. It would be a failing on my part and dishonor my true Dom to offer excessively submissive attentions and behavior to random men who do not display the characteristics of a protector and a leader but are instead living out a fantasy with little or no accountability to the women drawn into their webs. And if those are your requirements or desires, I am sure you will find someone on CM happy to oblige.
Save your hate messages and temper tantrums for someone else. For someone who thinks immaturity, hostility and threats make for a good Dom. Your message will be deleted, you will be blocked. My true Dom won't have any problem expressing a message that will begin the process of taking me readily in hand.
I will not agree to be taken under consideration by a stranger. You must make arrangements to meet me, not the other way around. My safety is my first requirement and I will not travel to meet a stranger in an unfamiliar location. I do not have too, nor will I consider sealing the deal by performing a sex act as a sign of my submission upon our first meeting. Go away.
Never say, never, anything is possible but don't think because you have demanded it, I am required to submit. No -- and -- Buzz-Off.
You are the Dom, step up to the plate and show your protective, masculine nature. I will not role-play with a stranger,,, my true Dom will not appreciate your using me to get your rocks off with no intention of doing anymore than looking for a live, on-demand sex show.
I will not use a Videocam, nor Skype, nor any other medium to send pics of my naked parts. You want to see exposed pussy? You have the entire internet at your disposal. Good luck.
Finally,
No Married Men:
If your wife won't be your sub, won't play games, let you spank or flog her, peg you, call you Master, talk dirty, if she used to but she changed her mind, if she is frigid, whatever,,, that is your problem not mine. You married her, you deal with it. Oh yeah, getting a divorce? Tell your story walking,,, away from me,,,
Go Away!
No Poly Families or Groups:
Some of my favorite friends are involved in poly-relationships. I love the camaraderie, how you are never alone, when I'm there how I just get welcomed into the mix in the kitchen, with the kids, just hanging out,,, but then I go home. Why? Because I want all the cock for myself -- and I assure you no Dom will ever beat that out of me. I am a greedy, selfish, recalcitrant submissive who wants every hard-on, every drop of cum, every toss of the flogger, every slap of the strap, every punishment fuck, every new toy, every Shibari knot, every filthy, nasty thought focused on me -- so I can bend, break, back-flip every bone and muscle in my body to make my Dom smile -- all by my damn self.
Go Away!
No Submissive Men or Women:
I don't hit. I don't hit anyone or anything. I don't want to order you around. I don't want to tie you up. I don't want to yell at you. I don't want to be responsible for your discipline. I don't want to manage your behavior. I don't want to monitor your wardrobe. I don't want to see your parts. I don't want to be your big sister, little sister, aunt, partner in crime. I don't want to focus on you and your needs because I want to focus on the true Dom and His needs. He is my priority and I can't help you. I'm sorry.
Go Away!
No Weirdo Dominant Assholes:
I know you think you have to bring every sub to heel and prove your mastery over the kingdom. No, you don't. I don't like you. I don't trust you. I don't respect you. I suspect you have unexplored psychological trauma or you work as a rent a cop and you need to be the boss of someone, might as well be a sub woman. Might as well talk crazy to her and be a mean rude asshole because you know she has to take it. Whatever game of lawn chairs you have worked out with these women -- good for you. But just because I am submissive, doesn't mean I don't like myself. It doesn't mean I need to be demeaned and brutalized because I don't think I deserve better. I know I deserve better and I am not available for the likes of you and your pathological games.
Go Away!
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