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I find myself thinking that there are two universal truths at play here. One is that anyone that is willing to read this won't bother to respond before the visual doesn't meet their expectations. The second is that anyone that doesn't care about the visual won't bother to read and end up being some fake that will think I'm desperate enough to send them money cause they are stuck in a hotel in Africa or they require some type of stipend to move from over seas. Either way for that rare few that actually give a damn about who a person is I'll take the time to write something worthwhile.

I wondered upon this lifestyle at the at of 17 the level of the lifestyle that I spend a majority of the lifestyle under is that of Gor. I have since evolved under different levels other then Gor such as the Daddy/baby girl Dom/sub dynamics which all three in my view require a different skill set and tact to pull off. I have found that no matter what level of this lifestyle you find yourself under there is a an underlining sense of self respect as well as respect for others that you must have if you are going to thrive and survive in this world of bdsm.

I supposed I'll really start with the basics for all that need that first I'm 35 and I'm from Florida.... Tallahassee to be exact I now live in Canada.I have studied many styles of of this lifestyle and the mental aspect has always greatly interested me... i guess because it's the one aspect that many tend to not bother with or rarely tap into as I have heard one slave put it the mental is a very important part of the lifestyle although it and the physical go hand and hand...I agree with this but I have always believed that the physical is there to enhance the mental.

I truly do enjoy my sadistic side but for me there's no fun in it if I can't fully tap into the mental side first... I see I have blabbed on and not sure if I have even scratched the surface so if there is something you wish to know that I have touched on feel free to ask me...

Oh and before I forget if you are curious as to what I see I want someone that is open minded willing to try new things that isn't afraid to look deep within themselves and find out the true nature of just who they really are and someone that is willing to explore their boundaries and push past them.
2/22/2013 3:46:08 PM

The point of origin for all failed communication is somewhere between the inner ear and the logic circuit of the brain. Sad but true most people spend so much time thinking they are more than they are. When they come across someone who thinks nothing of them and actually maybe curious to see what makes them tick... they believe that this person wants them in every way possible. Never does it occur to them to take was is being said at face value and to see the other person as just that an individual that may only wish to expand their knowledge update their way of thinking or someone seeking to understand that which they haven't been able to or are very new to. There are so many here that bitch whine moan and endlessly drone on and on about respect largely they bitch about it being shown to them while they eagerly bend over and hand you their ass to kiss.... but never do they show any in return. My thing is simple if you are an idiot that bitches about respect try showing it if you claim to be open to meeting new people then do it... otherwise you are nothing more than a fucking hypocrite that spouts shallow ideological bullshit that you are to ignorant, lazy or just plain stupid to follow yourself in a lifestyle where a Dominant must lead by action and a submissive follows by design where in this theoretical philosophy we all respect accept and nurture each other in a greenhouse that is blocked from the sun and starved of water and oxygen nothing can grow or flourish the same can be said for a lifestyle who's very foundation is nothing more than some back parlor room antidote that is whispered for nothing more than shits and giggles.