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My personality is...well, mine. I'm tired of trying to be what others want me to be, living up to everybody elses standards. I'm making a stand and doing what I want and what I think is right because I want to not because somebodey else tells or ask me to. For the first time in my life I understand that I am my own. I am nobody's replica. So the decisions I make need to be my own as well. I am bi-sexual and proud of it. I am also a Dominant, but have times where I can be some what submissive (a switch, about 70% Dom, 30% submissive.). I am strict. I do not beleave a Dom/me and sub relationship is purely based on sex! Sex can and may be a role in it but it is not the overall goal for me. A Dom submissive relationship is a two way street! The submisive shouldn't be the only one that gives. The Dominant must be caring and loving aswell. In a Dominant/submissive relationship the submissive holds the true power, for the Dom is dominant because they are, not because they choose to be...a submissive, however, can choose to stop submitting but a Dom cannot simply choose to stop being dominant. "The best submissives in the world are those who willingly come to you and kneel whispering of their love...."
I am, in all honesty, in search of a switch. I need a person that is prodimanetly submissive, but will step up and be Dom when my submissive side needs atention aswell. I am mainly dominant, and my submissive side only comes out in hard times, and only to the very select few that I trust enough. I need somebody that understands what being a switch is. who will understand, that if my submissive side comes out and I need to submitt at times..I am still THE Dom. If you try to take total control, I panick VERY easily. I guess, the Dom in Me views the sub in me as a weakness at times.
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