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Radulfr

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I am a polyamorous dominant male living in Peoria, AZ with my submissive wife (she uses the screenname nehemaut here on CollarMe) and our two cats. We live in the lifestyle 24/7, circumstances permitting.  We are both members of the local BDSM community, and are members of APEX (AZ Power Exchange) and PALS (Phoenix Area Lifestyle Society). The two have us have been living in the lifestyle for approximately three years, and are intent on learning as much as we can.

My girl and I are looking for a bisexual/bicurious/heteroflexible submissive or slave girl who shares our interests, likes, and dislikes.  Ideally, we intend to find a girl who will be with us for a long time, but, as we all know, life is unpredictable. My wife and I share an interesting dynamic that is rather unheard of in BDSM.  I do my best to be her friend and husband first, and Dominant second, which is very different then most D/s dynamics one sees in the community.  My intent is to have the same mindset with any girl that serves me.  Ultimately, the lifestyle is a fantasy that one integrates into their daily lives.  It should not interfere with one's daily responsibilities.  

My initial requirement is that any girl that applies be intelligent, polite, and direct.  I despise playing games, as they further complicate all interactions.  I am direct by nature, so please return the favor.

This is a journey that neither can forsee an end to in this life.  If you are seeking to learn, be pushed, controlled, beaten (for all the masochists out there - my favorite sort), and be part of a poly household, then we may be the couple for you.  Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions, or if you care to speak further.