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RadiantDesigner

Also on the site, radiant-designer

Just found this site and am getting a feel for it.I have always been drawn to things that are outside the status quo and have been fascinated with fetishes and kinks in general.I think that every relationship has it's balance of power and control, and I like being more on the dominant side of things. I feel that all interpersonal relationships are somewhat dynamic and there is a very slight chance that I would switch if the opportunity was right, but I do not think that would be a common thing for me.I will admit that I am no pro to this, but it isn't my first time either. I am not one of those people who has a passing curiosity and will be done with it in a month, this is a life long pursuit. I have some experience and looking for more. I have had an interest since 6th grade and it has only grown since (damn movies like "Secretary" and "The Story of O" for making me want it even more)I am not a mean person in general, but am more than happy to play the part when the time is right. I guess I classify myself as strict and sensual more than mean, but I have the ability to be mean when needed. I also am extremely attracted to dirty talk, begging, etc.I am particularly looking for someone willing to explore new limits with themselves.I have some equipment as well, a few gags, some knee and ankle cuffs, collars, suspension cuffs, etc that I am hoping will get some good use soon.And Yes I do have a Violet wand, and No I do not take it out for shits and giggles, it is a delicate and special piece, if you show me you are worth the treat then I will be happy to share but it is not something that I just pass around.