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| I have been a teacher of "truth" for many years and it has bled into my life, and my words are an attempt to represent who I am and what I am looking for. Yet until the actual chemicals mix in the air, nothing is really known!
I adore Bondage as my main "kink". I have had these feelings since early childhood and spent years hiding my fantasies thinking that the "taboo" of being turned on by a woman bound and gagged would land me in a mess somehow. However, I've been "out" for a long time now and have become expert at knowing Me and who and what I am. Even before "coming out" I never enjoyed "casual encounters." For Me, there must be an emotional, or chemical connection. Although my libido is healthy, my desires in this lifestyle are for finding the "one" who not only thrills to my incredible creativity sensually, but who also is my best friend. The person I want to spend my "couple" time with. I believe in alone time also, yet am not the jealous type. I choose to be monogamous, although sometimes in public play, if asked, I might top with someone or for someone with full knowledge or participation of my partner. This "rule" is for Me. It is not for anyone else. My household will never be polymorphic, however, if my "one" is thrilled by the touch of another woman or man or both; I shall make certain that happens, safely and sanely.
I can do 24/7 or I can do just the bedroom. I believe, although I am thoroughly Dominant, that women are to be adored, and that the gift of slavery or submission is the most precious of them all and to be accepted as such. I also believe that the "bottom" has most of the power most of the time (so saying if the Dominant has any brains at all).
I am comfortable, in early retirement, though from time to time will take work (as a performer, or teacher of same). I am extremely intelligent and do a lot of dumb things and laugh about it. If one has health, NOTHING else matters enough to get one upset. I insist on talking things out WHEN they are felt, as feelings are never right or wrong, but simply happen and folks are not gifted with the power of mind reading.
I am flexible and will try most anything (except bicycle riding...dont try, better than you has).
I believe that beyond my adoration of ropes and gags and anything that might restrain and a woman's beautiful feet, that I am what might be considered as empathetic. Simply put, if you find something that turns you on, I will get that same turn on by doing it and go to space with you. It's why I love gardening now! For example, I am definitely NOT a sadist. I do not "get off" on hurting others, however, if verbal or physical pain turns you on, it becomes what I adore as well.
There is nothing much to add to what is above. Ah, why am I alone? Several years ago I met and married my true love and submissive. Yet, life is never what we plan, she, though much younger than I, passed from a rapid and rabid cancer five years ago. I have done my grieving, and I am now ready to dedicate myself to that "special" submissive or slave who cares to be adored, and understands that I still believe in the laws of Chivalry, and might get a beatin' by not waiting for Me to open their side of the car!
As I said, I am currently in early retirement and though I have property in NC, I can relocate anywhere I desire. Children and family are certainly welcome as my family is very long distance these days. I also love critters of any kind.
Please contact Me if you have any questions or interest.
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