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Last revised 082919.
Im back. Ive had quite a streak of luck, and aim to extend that trend to my romantic life. Im more flexible on some requirements I have had had in the past. Lets talk.
Last revised 061417.
I am a straight Dominant male, well-read and highly intellectual. Im tall, fit, with grey eyes often delivering an intense gaze. When it serves my desires, I can be outlandishly patient. I must thank my parents and a solid education for developing my insatiable thirst for knowledge knowledge which I am happy to share, however, take careful note that I do not enjoy repeating myself nor explaining things multiple times.
At 33 years old, Ive had a wealth of opportunities to adventure, explore the world, and sample what interests me in it now, Im preparing for the stage of my life in which my focus begins to turn away from exploration, and inwards towards community, family, and longer term commitment.
A womans education, intelligence, and class with good bearing are all things I will nurture and cherish. As a traditional gentleman and outright romantic, I am looking for a female partner to kneel and put her lifes worries in my hands nearly a princess, but gold-diggers and entitled personalities will be sorely disappointed. My view is that I have a duty to my sub, which among other things, is to provide and ensure your needs are met - perhaps including some limited need for independence. While I find that a strong base attraction is a healthy need to begin a sustainable relationship, intellectual compatibility easily trumps attraction with its contribution to the longer term, sparking sustainable mutual interest, celebration, and devotion. Thus, my interest in a smart and clever professional woman of solid education, with confidence in her accomplishments or success. A part of me enjoys the challenge of earning and keeping that womans submission, while another part is all too aware that I desire this type of woman specifically so she does not bore me, as I have found bimbos, no matter how attractive, always do.
I am aggressively seeking a submissive woman, 24-35, leaning towards Caucasian, Latin, or rarely, Asian. I am more concerned aboutour personal compatibilityand your general health than your bodily specifics. However, like anyone, I have preferences long hair on your head with none elsewhere, limited or tasteful tattoos, slim overall including the butt, a slight hourglass, and modest to generous breasts. I am highly eclectic, and I am attracted to all eye or hair colors, as well as many other characteristics. I strongly dislike cigarette smoke if you are with me, you will begin to quit.
The curse of the intellectual is many interests music, art, reading, writing, chemistry, physics, astrophysics, mathematics, gadgetry, travel, rock climbing, kayaking, dining, cooking, whiskey, wine, with many more, and of course, sex. I sincerely hope you share some of these interests - with the last being a requirement, of course.
Within this communitys context, I am interested in pursuing a variety of vanilla and off-vanilla activities, with a relationship centered around a submissive core. I am Dominant and lean a bit masterful, but I do not have a need to be recognized as a daddy or have interest in age play. I intend to restrain my lover from time to time, but I am not interested in wasting time fiddling with ropes and gadgets I seek the effect, not the method. While I am interested in mastery, and I may exercise it (particularly at home), I do not desire a mindless slave which must be micro-managed every moment. Instead I require a thoughtful woman who is fully functional both within their submission and outside in the world in addition to submitting to my active instructions and domination, it is my will that my sub pursue what they believe I intend, and build trust together to bring conflicts to me for resolution.
Communication is key, but despite all the community education in this area, I still feel it is too often overlooked. My intent for safety is that we agree upon safe words, and that limits are discussed and well understood before discipline, gags, blindfolds, or restraints are involved.
My core interest is in free and fully given consent and utter trust, and as your Dominant, I will go to the ends of the earth to earn that from you. While submission and discipline are important, this is no Shades of Grey life I am interested in. I will not fully replace or destroy your personal life, both because it interests me, and because I am a caretaker, so true abuse, destruction, and extreme humiliation do not interest me. However, activities and lifestyles which contribute ones physical or emotional pleasure can and certainly should be discussed.
My warning labels are Im comfortable with silence, and I tend to think very coldly, strategically, and long term. While at work I am usually all business unless a personal matter truly requires my attention - though I deeply enjoy sweet, thoughtful gestures. I do not like excessive texting all day nor someone requiring babysitting.
My hard limits are cheating of any kind, sharing with other males, any kind of excessive or permanent damage, and watersports. I do not tolerate, and will actively confront abusive relationships with others in your life.
Scene I have begun reading the Gor series for education, interest and reference. I am a fan of many stories found on Literotica, and was first made aware of the existence of the lifestyle as a teen via some mentions on the MCstories website, which quite frankly has some really fucking hot stuff.
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It's been a hectic week, but things are beginning to clear up. Now, a little relaxing, a little shopping, some cooking, some writing.
I've always been a fan of predators. In a way I am one, but other words and phrases which come to mind within the same thought carry a different than typical flavor: Alpha of the pack, possessive, protective, mine, guardian, fiery. To me, I've always found a specific type animalistic appreciation for wolves, and I identify with the concepts of mythical dragons' fierce spirit and legendary protectiveness for their own. For great cats and bears, I appreciate them, but more modestly.
So, I was recently searching for a higher quality flask for evenings out, sometimes throwing in the word dragon, or to go with suits when I came across this little treat
from Dark Harvest Leather.
A little additional searching yielded some delightful results: Dark Harvest has a lovely collection. I think it's safe to say I'll be considering them when I need quality custom goods.
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Stay wild out there.
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