First and foremost, I do not believe that BDSM is all about kinky sex. I believe that the D/s path of life that we choose to live is one based on TRUST, COMMUNICATION, and RESPECT.

I'm not looking for a woman who is going to drop to her knees at the snap of my fingers and agree with every goddam thing I say and do (and by the way,,,I'm not going to stroke my own ego by capitalizing every single pronoun that directs it meaning towards me,,,,if I want to jerk off,,,,I've got porn)

I'm looking for an interesting woman that enjoys finding a connection and using it to build a solid working system that can only become stronger and more durable ( I apologize for the analogy) I think you cannot have ONE working system without at least TWO parts contributing to the goal. Sure I would love to have the most outragous, kinky, and damn near offensive sexual relationship possible, but I'm not interested in a tool to gradify myself nor am I looking for a warm hole to help me stroke my own dick.

I'm a sadist, I like taking control, and I'm honestly addicted to addrenaline and endorphins.

chose the medium, I prefer friends first, then we can make our own art