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Phoenixascendng

I'm generally a happy, easy going person...at least on the surface. There are always a great many things going on beneath. As my name suggests I'm trying to "rise from the ashes" so to speak.To find myself again, and get myself back on the path I belong. The path that will make me happy with me. My current path of self discovery has involved a great deal of thought, mental and physical experimentation, and TIME. Life experiences have given me my interest in rigging now. I enjoy decorative tying, which takes patience, and a bottom that is willing to "work the scene" with me. I get bored without engagement. I am in love with Fire play! Ask me, I'll be happy to give you a small sample. I have a few excellent sources for information on Fire play, but no one local. If you know anyone who has Fire flogging experience please point me in their direction. I'm always looking to learn more. As far as impact play goes, I enjoy utilizing canes, paddles, dragons tongues/tails, floggers, wartenburg wheels, and pinchy things placed in the right locations (LOL)! I've had the opportunity to get advice on many of these subjects from pillars of the Asheville community, and recently I've begun to expand my knowledge/information base which is a very exciting new journey. I cannot wait to practice these new skills and start utilizing them. What I'm looking for: - Bottom(s) for impact, fire, and rope play. (This does NOT need to be a sexual relationship). - Non-monogamous, poly, or open relationship What I enjoy outside the Kink scene: -Hiking -Camping -Going to a ballgame -Spending time with my kids -Spending time away from my kids :-) -Spending time with my friends -Watching good movies (or even sometimes bad ones with good company!) If you're looking for a Dom, Master, or Daddy, you're probably better off to continue your search, at this time I'm not in that head space. I have work to do on myself before I can commit that type of time to another. If you're looking for a Sugar Daddy, well, this ain't no gravy train.