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Returned after time away.. remaining hopeful lol
I was on this site for many years, met some great friends, and my last serious partner, but then decided to leave the site as I wasn't gaining much from it anymore.
Anyway! I'm now back as I'm free and single again, though just looking for friendship and the odd bit of fun rather than anything serious.
So here's a little nilla info about me before I dive into what I'm looking for in regards to kink:
I'm a very friendly/approachable creative girl, bit of a hippy but also have a gothy/steampunk side. I enjoy a wide variety of music from classical and folk, to psytrance and house, to rock and some metal, and many things inbetween. I love a good horror movie, old retro stuff just as much as modern stuff thats drowned in CG special effects. Can't live without a good bit of Elm Street action from time to time lol. Though despite a love of horror, my most watched film always seems to be Crazy Stupid Love.. gotta love some Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling!
I spin poi, play ukelele and guitar fairly badly but enthusiastically, draw and sculpt, love a bit of video-gaming action (Bioshock and Dishonoured being my favourites right now!), I want to do falconry training, have 2 pet snakes and want more, and I love archery.
Just a few interesting things about me there to hopefully start off a conversation that isn't purely kink based! :-)
Now to the kink!!!........
This may get confusing as being a bisexual switch means I essentially play with 4 different roles.. a submissive to males, submissive to females, dominant to males, and dominant to females...
Here's a general overview though, and if you are confused about anything or simply have some questions, just message me.
(note - interests listed on the left are not necessarily associated will all roles. Some are purely submissive or dominant interests.)
Although I can be a very strict and at times cruel domme, and greatly enjoy the chance to be fairly heavy handed and push a persons limits, I can also be extremely gentle/caring and supportive with aftercare being of equal importance to me as a good whipping/spanking etc, and when you manage to genuinely please me you will be rewarded.
When it comes to my submissive side, I will not simply give myself to you because you tell me to and think you're gods gift to mankind! You have to earn my trust and respect, and in turn my submission. I also need to feel naturally submissive toward you, and we can only find out if that's the case by meeting in person. I will know fairly instantly whether this is the case or not.
In regards to play, what I enjoy depends partly on who I am with so it's best to just ask/discuss once we start chatting. Though as a general rule my interests/needs as a submissive are not particularly extreme, so I am not looking for a particularly extreme dominant. If you're looking for a full blown pain slut look elsewhere!
In general, with males I tend to submit and prefer an experienced and firm but also very nurturing dom. Not interested in any guys under 30, or over 45yrs old.
With women I tend to dominate and prefer the less experienced girls out there who have not yet picked up habits from previous mistresses/masters etc. Happy to start soft and build from there.
I also generally only play with girls younger than myself or roughly equal in age. I'm not usually interested in older women, but there may be an exception in future. I remain open minded in this area.
There have been exceptions to this rule, I have dominated men and submitted to women, and there are likely to be exceptions again, but thats how it usually pans out when it comes to my switch orientation.
Particularly interested in meeting girls/women, and preferably switch like me :)
Dying for a good bit of girl on girl action after having been with a man for years!!
A little note for submissive males as you are the group I tend to get the most messages from:
In regards to submissive males, I am only interested in casual play and friendship, and will not be looking to take on a male sub/slave full time, or enter in an LTR with one!
Casual play can include both online and in person, and if you impress me enough to lead to a session in person I will expect you to pay for any travel/hotel costs etc involved. I do not offer sessions within my own home at this time, though after an initial meet I would consider a session at yours.
I expect contact only from genuine submissives with a real desire to please and have their limits pushed/explored, and preferably with a strong masochistic streak!
Financial tributes are not expected. Domination for me is about having control of your mind and body, not about draining your bank account! Though a reasonable gift/financial tribute is a very good way to prove to me that you are serious and get my attention ;)
Note to ALL who choose to contact me:
1. Happy to prove I'm female/the person in my photo's via phone/Skype chat, and I expect you to also prove that you are genuine in this way early on.
Though please note that I will only engage in actual online play with submissives.
In regards to my own submissive side, I am only interested in real time play!
2. I will not respond to people without pictures of themselves on their profile. Though if you send a photo with your first message to me, I may still talk to you.
3. If a casual play session is decided on then a hotel will be booked as a neutral location.
4. Generally goes without saying but here we go:
NO beastiality!
NO children!
NO scat!
NO play that leads to injury beyond bruising/surface marks! No A&E visits!
There are plenty of ways to inflict pain without causing injury. Get creative people! No need for flat out violence.
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Sometimes can't help think life would be a lot simpler if I was simply gay or straight, domme or sub.. being a genuine bisexual switch can be a pain in the ass... can also be a lot of fun of course.. but not always. Argh!
The worst bit is sexuality wise due to how many straight guys don't tend to trust bi girls as they get paranoid we'll leave them for a woman, and then many of the gay girls seem to avoid bi girls too as they get paranoid we'll leave them for a guy!
Just because a girl is bisexual does not make her a greedy cheat!!!
Really pisses me off when you hit it off with someone and as long as they are assuming you are gay or straight its all good.. then you tell them you're bisexual and suddenly you're a greedy whore!
My sexuality does not affect my loyalty and dedication to the one I love.
I fall for the person, not the gender! I don't have to have both at once to be happy! It's being with the right person, gender being irrelevant, that brings happiness.
Get so sick of all the negative judgement towards bisexuals from both the straight and lesbian community..
There just really seems to be a lack of understanding of bisexuality with many not even seeing it as a 'real' sexuality.. either seeing it as someone who is gay but partially in denial, or straight but just likes to experiment.. I don't get why SOME (not all!) people find it so hard to understand that I can love a woman just as much as I can a man, and the sexual attraction to each gender is very much equal/comparable too.
I am not a lesbian in denial, and I am not a straight girl who just likes to drink from the fury cup for fun from time to time...
Also, when I am with a guy I am still bi, and when I am with a woman I am still bi..
Sick of this "you've been with a guy for years so you must be straight" thing.. or the "you're with a woman so you must be gay" thing.. still bi guys! Even if I marry a woman and spend the rest of my life with her, I will still be bi.
Not all hold this attitude thankfully but still enough to drive me nuts some days :((
RANT OVER.... lol |
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