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	I am seeking something specific and something general. If you are it, send me a note. Specific: I envision the situation going like this: I seek a slave for household chores. There will be lots of things to do and take care of, and they must be perfect. Your first time actually engaged (not counting meetings leading up to this) will only be the household chores. These may last as long as 5-6 hours. Then there will be an inspection on your second visit - and for each infraction, a punishment will be administered. For example only, it might be a spanking of 5 swats for each poorly done item. Rewards for above and beyond items might be given, but if, after the tally, infractions exceed rewards, no reward; and if rewards exceed infractions, then the reward. The third meeting would be again the same household chores - and the fourth meeting would be the tally; but the punishments will escalate for repeat offsenses -- so, if a new infraction, then the 5 swats; but if a repeat infraction, then it will be 5 swats with a paddle; rewards are not cumulative - if you have done above and beyond once, then that is the expectation. Taking this further, a third repeat infraction may get to a swat with the cane; and fourth repeat infraction will be five swats with the cane; and a fifth repeat infraction is dismissal. Working within limits, and desires, rewards can be wonderful. General: I seek a play partner from time to time to explore our mutual interests in bdsm - someone with whom we can build trust, and play periodically and consistently. This is more of a behind closed doors activity and will not intrude into the vanilla world. You can be married and doing this on the side, but my terms will have to be adhered to. So, Perhaps We Can make this work. As an aside, I first became active in bdsm play in the late 1970s before I was 18; since then, I have played off and on for more than 30 years.

7/15/2012 4:14:36 AM

It seems it is somewhat true -- the amount of BS here is amazing. I am going to go back to my regularly scheduled programming.

7/9/2012 12:40:48 PM

So, in response to some questions, and to help narrow down the potential supplicants:

I ended a rather long-term relationship about 18 months ago -- my subs (they were a sub-couple) ended up getting divorced and we all parted ways (the divorce had to do with other issues). After 18 months, I am again looking. I want something more intense.

I want a sub who will enjoy bondage - lots of restrictive bondage leading up to complete immobilization, teasing while bound, mild to medium discipline when needed, etc. My former subs were more sensual in nature, so my practice skills have not been fully used in several years. So you will have to also be my practice dummy --- if it is like riding a bicycle, this will not take too long.

I am also looking to upgrade and acquire steel restraints - I love device bondage.

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