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About Me:
Hi, my name is Kate.
I am 19 years old, and new to the lifestyle.
I live in upstate New York. Unfortunately.
I am currently a full time college student majoring in Criminal Justice.
I hope to one day pursue my dream of being a cop, and eventually be part of a S.W.A.T team.
I try to set high goals for myself.
*My career choice has nothing to do with the way I choose to live my life.
I don't need to hear that people are going to steer clear of me because I want to go into law enforcement. I am fully aware of that issue. I'm not going to lie about what I wish to do in the future. If you don't want to be involved with me because of that then fine. At least you are well aware before hand. =] *
As I said before, I am new to the lifestyle. Although I've always been naturally submissive and I've always gotten pleasure from pain.
My hopes of being here is to find the right person to break me and rebuild me. I'm not here to be someones fuck toy. I'm here to learn and grow.
I want to be complete, and I want to have meaning and purpose.
I've come to realize that there are a lot of people out there that don't know what they are talking about, let alone, doing. This is not a joke to me, and I find it offensive when people pretend to be something they are not.
I am not looking for a daddy, so please don't waste your time.
I am someone who wishes to have a career of my own and I don't wish to be taken care of my whole life.
I'm not looking for an easy way out.
I am going to school and have goals for a reason.
What I look for in a Dom:
Someone who is experienced, and willing to teach. I seek to be molded by someone that fully understands what I need and what I want. They need to understand that I'm not in this just for the sex, and that I seek to live the life of a submissive.
Someone who isn't above doing things like going to the movies, or cooking dinner or just hanging out with friends, but always carryout the D/s relationship no matter where we are.
**I am someone who would walk behind, not beside and definitely never in front. I would never sit before my dom. or eat before my dom. or anyything of the sort. I would wait for my dom. to give me permission, even if just a simple nod.
Those are things I would want to earn. Little things like that are the most meaningful to me. Having that day come where I would be allowed to walk beside my dom. would be one of my proudest days ever, because I would have earned it.
Because of the way society is today, I am not one to wear public collars. To me it is more rewarding having a dom. that is able to control me subtly in public.
*I lied...that and being labeled as someone's "pet" are the most rewarding things to me.*
Being able to share and carryout such a secret means everything to me. It's what separates myself and everyone else in the eyes of my dom.**
Besides from that,
I need someone who can keep me on my feet at all times.
Someone who would pick me up when I was down, and tell me to be strong when I felt weak.
Someone who could protect me from ALL the dangers in the world, and make me feel safe at all times.
But most of all, I need someone who I can respect and love fully, and who respects me and loves me just the same.
If all of that is there and the chemistry is there then I would be able to give myself to serve and submit.
I enjoy rules and protocols.
But I also need someone that I can laugh with and have fun with.
A Little More About Me:
I've recently discovered my love for females. I love everything about them. I have never been inlove with a woman. I only seem to have been attracted to them in the past, and am unsure as to if I could love another woman.
But, I am not against finding out.
I have never been dominated by a woman, but I really would like to.
I believe I could fully give myself to them. I believe I would feel more comfortable with them, and that would in turn allow me to be myself.
As I said before, I am here to learn and if at all possible find the "right" one that can break me and mold me into what I need to be.
I'm not against joining another couple.
I think they could offer me a lot, and I could learn much from them.
I also am not against becoming part of a poly household, given that we all become fond of one another.
It is actually something I have given much thought about. I feel that I could get the most of what it is I desire from a poly household.
There's more love, more control, and closer connections.
Who wouldn't desire a relationship such as that?
****Please don't send me a million messages telling me you want to beat me and fuck me.
I'm not here to cyber, and I'm not here for any flings.
I don't want to hear what you would like to do to me.
Have a little respect.
Get to know me and who I am, and then maybe you can learn more about me in that area.
You're just making yourself look desperate.****
Care to know more, just send me a message.
Please don't waste my time.
**I do have pictures, just ask.
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