Hi! I'm new to the life but not new to the idea. Finally got the nerve up to seek out that which I want, rather than just what is expected of me. I'm a single mother. Size 16-18. D&D free, non-smoker and borderline veggiesaurus. I don't consider myself a masochist but want a strong Dom to take charge of me and show me the pleasure of submitting. I'm old fashioned, opinionated and strong willed. Fairly intelligent and well read, and love the finer things in life.
I'm looking for the man who I can trust to take charge and take care of me while at the same time I'm taking care of him. A partner, a confidant, a lover and a friend. Someone I can cook and clean for and who appreciates the effort. Someone who can push my limits and take me to the brink and over. Someone ok with my inexperience and willing to introduce me to and train me for their pleasure and mine.
Someone who loves kids and cats and whimsy at times. Can be comfortable going to a musical as well as to a rock concert or to a weekend sci-fi convention or ren-fair. And someone who would rather have a long conversation with me rather than sit a watch sports for hours on end.
Physically I am attracted to tall, fit men. Age is no matter so long as they are intelligent and kind. Accents are a strong plus! Ever since a child I've had a big thing for voices, it's one of the first things I notice about a man. Whether it is just unique like Vincent Price's or deep and resonant like Yul Brynner.
One big drawback against me is I can not physically deal with extreme heat or sun. I am from very fair European stock and had way too many 2nd and 3rd degree sunburns and cases of heatstroke growing up. But if it's cold, rainy or foggy I love it! ;) Just my inner-goth coming out!
p.s. I think I need to clarify for those who are actually literate and take time to read these things. I am a sub and a fetishest, and not interested in being a slave. I am not Gorean, nor am I interested in being the secret you need to hide from your spouse. I have friends who are slaves, and have no problem with that, but I know that is not for me.
