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| Excited by the knowledge that there could be so many other open minded, sex-positive people in this city... Hoping I might get to know a few of you..
Rather new to exploring the depths of my passion but have learned that I don't have many limits.
I definitely have found that I like being dominant. Always respectful, but definitely dominant. That said, I have a very open mind and am open to pretty much anything...
Love it when a sexy woman or couple takes the initiative to say hi so.... don't be shy!
My Ideal Person: I enjoy people who are open minded and secure in their sexuality. Sexiness is of the mind more than body and requires a certain attitude that says you know you have it.
I was recently asked what I enjoyed about this lifestye and, for the first time really, I took a moment to consider it all and wrote the following:
Bondage: Physical restraint of another is exciting to me in many ways but perhaps, I am excited most by the mental aspect of being with someone who has given themselves over to me completely. Trusting that while I may do to them whatever I wish, that they will find an incredible pleasure in the act too.
Shibari: As above but with the inticate ropework and practice required of the art. I am by no means a master of this but the limited exposure I have had has shown me that this art is among the most intimate of experiences.
Roleplay: It's all good. Cop/prisoner, Teacher/student, Daddy/daughter, rape play, etc
Pain: I am a light weight in this category and could likely never be with a woman who desires a lot of pain. That said, I have no problem spanking a bare ass forcfully enough to leave a gorgeous hand print and slapping a breast hard enough to ellicit a gasp. I have in my "arsenal" a crop, a small flogger and a caning rod. I have found that these toys are very good teasing devices. Images of people getting off on huge bruises and split skin do nothing for me aside from marvelling at the level of passion and trust that they have allowed their "master".
Dirty Talk: I definitely enjoy being vocal during sex. I love to know that what I am doing is exciting my partner and specific requests are always welcomed even if I choose to ignore them. I have taken dirty talk to the level of humiliation as well and have learned that I quite enjoy using words like "slut, whore and bitch" when I have become comfortable enough with someone to know that they know me well enough to understand that it is truly just part of the game we are playing and that in no way, do these words speak to a lack of respect for the person I am with.
Choking: there is something wonderfully taboo about holding a woman by the throat. Pressing her up against a wall and holding her there while I explore the rest of her body or pinning her to the bed by the throat as I fill her.
Threesomes and moresomes... I have very limited experience in the orgy setting but quite enjoy being with two women or sharing another woman with her man.
Hair pulling, Anal play, fisting, discipline, orgasm denial, handcuffs, and of course, play fighting although, as I have had some training in this last aspect, it might be a little unfair.
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