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We are a M/F Dom/sub committed couple. We've both been involved in BDSM
and (most accurately) D&s
for many years in a variety of situations,
so we have a significant amount
of knowledge and eperience.


I'm a Dominant man who does not see dominance as abusive or controling
in its negative sense,
but gets incredible satisfaction
rom the way in which my woman
(see below)
gives herself to me so totally.
The fact that she is so accomplished
in so many ways
- and chooses to surrender to me -
is what our relationship is all about.

she is, as I've said, an accomplished professional
(well-known in a what I'll call
a human services field),
beautiful and sensual, strong willed
but wonderfully giving.
she is a sophisticated "girly-girl"
in our vanilla life, but simultaneously
a terribly greedy orgasm addict
and *horrible* :) exhibitionist
who loves nothing more than
being "forced" to come
over and over and over
while others watch.


I could say more, but this gives a taste of who she is. We have "played" (oh, how I hate that word!) in clubs around the Eastern US and even in Canada, have been intermittently active in the New England "scene."

Recently I have begun to think that i would like our play to involve a somewhat more personal component. I'm not sure how far we will take this, but I know that I would like to meet like minded couples, singles and groups who can expand the boundaries of our experience - and whose experience we might be able to expand. I have few specific expectations - I'd like to keep an open mind and be open to exploring a variety of things I've thought of and perhaps a few that I haven't yet. I'm not ruling out anything at this point other than the "usuals" - i.e., kids, animals, severe sadism/masochism, permanent markings and scat-related activities. There are a few things that I *do* kow that I'd like to explore: vp has had limited direct experience with other women [although she "hates" being watched by women so much that her orgasms can become explosive :) !] so I can imagine many wonderfully interesting possibilities with both Dominant and submissive women. And, while she has been watched, talked about and embarrassed by many men, she has limited experience in really being used by them - I'd like to explore that.

This profile has become
far longer than I intended,
but it should give a pretty good
introduction to what we're interested in.
We're hoping to find basically balanced, thoughtful folks who are
also looking to expand their experience.
We'd love to find some experienced folks
from whom we can continue to learn
- and we'd be happy to connect with
less experienced folks who are
open to really exploring.
If you've goten this far and we've piqued
your interest, please drop us a line,
tell us about yourselves
and let's see where this might go.
P

Adding this in March '09:
We haven't been on line for a while
because my sub has not been well.
I'm particularly anxious to give her
some particularly intense experiences
in the near future. I'd love to arrange
some situations where she can be
used by and exhibited to
other couples and groups
[in, of course,
sane, controlled situations]
If you'd like to explore this,
or have some interesting ideas,
by all means get in touch.
P